Mine can jump on the couch but the beds are too high for them. Anyway since I don't have large or bully breed dogs, I think someone is talking out their ----- to think we should not let them on the sofas, beds, laps, or anyplace else they want to be. They are after all part of the family, and I sure wouldn' treat any of my kids like that. Why do they say they are part of our family, but treat them as thought they are not. Kind of contradictory idsn't it!!!!
I get as much enjoyment out of having my babies cuddle with me on the sofa and in bed at night, as they do. I want someone to tell me where the harm is.