without having read the other post i'll say this...if she were you real friend she would not have minded when you went over to the brat got in his face and threated his little a@#! " i said leave her a lone next time i will show you i mean business!" obviously they don't have the fear put in them. and i think i would have said something to the mother. and it wouldn't have been nice! she would have been able to handle it if she were you real friend.