We have one of those tomboy girls too. We call Carley "Ruff & Tumble"!! I do her hair up in a pony every day at least 4 or 5 times, cause they always come out. I have to keep an eye on her, or the bows (when I put them in) come out and then Cooper chews them up

She will let me dress her, and she forgets about the bows and clothes after a bit, but she always looks a bit "rumpled" after an hours or so!!