I too have some health issues that put me in some pretty bad pain , and my babies are too always there with kisses and sitting right at my side until I can get back to normal......So So glad you have little Tara (this is my 23 y/o daughter's name too) to comfort and love you....You shall be in my prayers! You hang in there! I have a wonderful support site with alot of loving ppl that deal with pain if your interested PM me and I will give you the web address.