[Grayson's mom]

So are you spending his money or yours? If it's yours then he has NO say how you spend your money, my dh just shakes his head when I walk in with a new Coach bag, he shakes his head when the fur kids get new things but IT'S MY MONEY, not his, I don't ask what he does with his and as long as the bills are paid then SO WHAT?

Seems like a controlling person and you are jumping when he says how high. You can go on vacation with pets we have someone watch our babys and it's all good.

They are a joy and I wouldn't trade them in for anything!
added: You have to have things ready for the puppy when they come home you will also need a bed,crate, water bottle, food bowl, toys, carrier, blanket, food, and so forth. So your not just throwing your money away, you will need these things!