....or you could say it this way..."You know I am off tomorrow morning if you wanted me to help you pick out what we needed, I wouldn't mind helping you." Maybe for some reason he thinks you might not want to go. I agree, guys don't think of this kinda stuff at all, you pretty much gotta slap in the face with it, instead of hints. And if you put it this way and he makes it clear he doesn't want you to go for whatever reason, ya'll need to talk about it, cause you need to learn to communicate now when your first starting out and the best way is just to say what you feel, of course in a non-judgemental and non-threatening way, ( I am channeling Dr. Phil, I think!!). Hope this all works out the way you want and he is just being a dumb guy and not even thinking you want to go.
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