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Originally Posted by Thorsmomma  I guess that's also what I'm upset about too. He called me from work (he on night shift tonight...again!) and told me he's going to go to his dad and step mom's (who he's totally NOT close with) after work and have breakfast there, and then look at the stuff, and then his dad is going to take him to get his car fixed and then he was like, 'so i guess I'll see you around noon......or maybe you can meet us for lunch or something.' I don't think I'm going to meet them for lunch. I know that kinda being bratty, but I swear, I have dropped the big hints. I wanna be straight up with him, but I also don't want to come off as over bearing and needing to be 'attached to the hip' or something cause ususally I am very independent but as I've just moved here and haven't met many people yet he's my one and only friend to hang out with. Plus I love him. Gosh I know this sounds rediculous. I think I have pms. I'm just getting upset over this. Thank you ALL for your wonderful opinions. |
I have been exactly in the same position as you. I moved to Fort Worth with my DH, and left my family and did have any friends. It gets pretty lonely and depressing. My DH and I almost broke up during that faze of getting use to a new place and stuff, but we stuck it out and things got alot better. Sounds like your BF is not getting the hints which is not a surprise most men don't. You should just come out and tell him what is on your mind, but do it in a nice and understand way. You should never be afraid to tell you BF what you are thinking and feeling. He well totally appreciate it and respect you for it.