You came to this site wanting prayers and advice.There are some people on here that did want to help finanically (not saying you asked!) But you reply saying donot call your vet without your consent.Didn't you give that consent and post the info to call? There have been people scammed on here and it breaks our hearts.(You) came to a yorkie community and then ask us not to behave like a family?the poeple here LOVE their yorkies and all others with a passion just read some of the old posts.I understand you are stressed and I think good advice is what you were given, mind you all opinions will not compliment your views but you asked.these people are here because of their love. if I was giving money I would want to know as much as possible first.Or 

    are you to proud to accept help because others will be involved in your business? well any place you go for help will do that.I HOPE TAHOE GETS BETTER!   HE WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS AND EVERYONE ELSES>but please don't make these loving people feel bad for caring and wanting to help accept what you have asked for at face value and sometimes even a little miracle mixed in
