Maybe she just wants you to be her friend. Sometimes if you listen with your heart you'll hear more than you can with your ears but you have to want to. Set some bounderies with her, let her know it's o.k. to come over but explain that you need some time with just your family too...let her know when it's o.k. to call and when it's too late, let her know your daughter takes naps and you don't want to upset her schedule...things like that. Include her in playtime or a movie or a cook out or something...maybe she just needs some one on one girl time. Talk with her Grandmother if you need to...maybe she can help set some bounderies that will be agreeable with all of you. |