[natalienicole]

ok sorry but i was just reading the threadon the site comments etc about imature teenagers posting on yt. And i realized i have this problem only in real life. my neighbor a 13-15 year old girl lives with her grandparents. and to make a long story short i felt sorry for her at first and fixed her hair once for a miss contest at the fair etc. and now she wont leave me alone. shes always coming over here til real late at night waking my daughter up with the doorbell etc and shes not even 3 she needs to sleep.
she used to come over all the time and when she came into the house she would eat my food etc and complain about what i was watching on tv etc and i tried to be nice but its getting to the point i dont let her in anymore. heck most of the time i dont even answer the door. or i make hubby if hes here answer and tell her im not home. i thought she would get the point but apparently not. i think she spies on me as well. she doesnt get along with the neighbors that live accross the st from me and the guy came to the door one day to tell me that hubby left my car lights on and i had the phone with me cuz i was getting ready to call someone so i took it out with me to turn my lights off thanked the guy and he was real nice about it. anyways before i could even get back to my front door my phone was ringing it was my neighbor girl wanting to know why i had answered the door, what the guy had wanted, and she told me not to answer the door next time when she can over.
I cant even go outside anymore without worrying she will see me and come over. and when she does she babies my little girl and sits there and tries to play with her and so now its getting hard to keep her away when my daughter is hollering for her every time she comes to teh door.
and just about a month ago she came over with some school order form thing like red wheel and wanted me to order some stuff and i looked threw the books etc and picked out some stuff that looked good and told her that if she would tell me how much these items would cost tomorow id prolly order them or something after i talked to hubby since he has to pay for it and i wanted to ask him which he would prefer to get. well she didnt come back the next day and i just figured ok guess she didnt want me to order anything. well the other day she came over with some stuff that i technically didnt order considering i never paid for anything nor did she ever come back by to see for sure what i wanted and wanted me to pay for them. and i was like ok til i noticed that one of the items isnt even anything i picked out apparently she must have just guessed and put me down for soemthing cuz i said id order and never asked me what i wanted. anyways thank goodness my huby wasnt home cuz he had all the money so i told her to come back by later. well hubby is really mad he hates this little girl anyways cuz of more things this would be a book if i got into it all if it isnt already so he refuses to pay for something i didnt order. i just need a polite way to get rid of her. i dont want to be unneighborly. but im running out of options here.