She's blaming you for a relationship ?? That's pretty lame - if she made the decision to see or not see anyone it would have no bearing on your introduction - that's just nuts !!
Just from your other posts I know you've come a long way.....you'll be ok girl - what she's doing to your friendship isn't the way true friends would be and it sounds like it'll be her loss in the long run....one day maybe she'll wake up...or have someone treat her the same as she's treated you.
Chin up !!! you have a good marriage and Siu Pao and a whole life ahead of you - no one needs someone dragging them down |