I wish I could keep the friendship too but it wouldn't work one way and trust is no longer there because I know she has been talking behind me for so long. I did tell her I was hurt by what she said. She responded by saying I am acting like a prude so that was where I had enough. I was the one who introduced her to her current boyfriend and he is a nice guy. If this guy finds out anything, I will be held responsible for not telling him (he is my husband's buddy too. Hubby will hold me responsible too if he finds out
). I know I have changed so much over the year after getting married, coming to a new country and being independant, away from my family and all. I will only continue to change when I work, etc and I am not sure of how to continue with this friendship. There isn't even any "how are you?", "when will you be back?"..even if I write email to them telling them I will be back and I want to see them, there is no reply. I really don't think there is anything left in the friendship to pursue...I don't know