 venting
Just a week ago, I can't keep my mouth shut and said something to a girlfriend I have known since I was 13 years old and I can say we are no longer in contact. What happened was one of my guy friend sent out an email with a video of a dog masturbating himself (I am serious) and then we were talking about it..they asked if I have seen any dogs do that before (I have a few male dogs before) and I said never and then my this girlfriend went on to say that Siu Pao will not need it because he has me..she was trying to imply I masturbate for my dog or I have sex with my dog hence he doesn't need it. She thought it is funny but I feel it is being more insulting than funny, some people just don't know how to make good jokes and insult other people so that they could have a laugh. This coming from a 27 year old who has been sleeping with someone else's guy behind her own boyfriend's back and thinks that it is okay to do so. Even warned me so many times to not tell her bf because he is my friend also...I don't like minding other people's business and will never tell but come to think of it now, I have no regret of what happened of what I have said and done. This friend together with another girlfriend loves to team up and talked behind my back and criticizing a friend behind their back is not much contribution to a heathy friendship. This girl even critize the girl she teams up with in front of me but I didn't get involved, kept quiet and stood my ground. I really do not know why I have put up with it for so long that I feel stupid thinking about it. Maybe because I have always thought that we grew up together and I try to keep the friendship. We are no longer in high school and I refused to go back to the way of the high school where people team up and bully others. I feel that in the past year I have seen and grown so much that I no longer want to participate in whatever they love to do, bringing others down and criticizing others. As much as I would like to have and keep as many friends as I could, I wouldn't mind losing those that likes to bring others down if you get what I mean. The world is difficult enough on its own..there is no need to make someone else'e life tougher. I think I have had enough of people insulting, criticizing and judging me for loving my furbaby and its time to weed out a few who do not how to respect people who do. It does hurt to lose a friend that you have known for so long but I strongly believe it will be better for the long run. I have also make a few new girl friends who are dog lovers and we will be meeting up soon when I get home. I do hope tomorrow will be a better day.
I just need to vent...sorry for being long.. |