Jacky, your so right not to have engaged in a battle of the wits w/ her, because someone like that is witless
...you can't argue w/ stupid... People like that are really miserable with them selves & w/ life in general....It's to bad that it had to be a relative...been there done that..it just makes it even more sad...trust me , this had absolutely nothing to do w/ you, she's angry at the world & you where in the line of fire...your on the right track w/ life ...keep up the good work...you go girl!!!