Hurting is a part of life. If we never know pain we can never really know happiness.
I've known quite a bit of pain - depression SUCKS! - but now I'm the happiest I think I've ever been and I'm out here in the world on my own and I'M LOVING IT! I wouldn't appreciate this feeling as much as I do right now if I hadn't known the blue.
So kiddo, you'll both pick yourselves up, brush yourselves down and move on to the next thing wiser people, knowing a wee bit more about yourselves and others.
Hope that helps |