It is a wonderful and beautiful gift to give someone. But, having been a surrogate, I can tell you, it is also very very hard. As much as there is this huge upside to it, the bad part is that you still have to deal with the after effects of pregnancy and maternal instinct. Make 100% sure that you have a close support group that completely understands and is behind you.
Although, there is truly nothing more heartwarming and no more wonderful feeling in the world, then being able to give someone the child they always wanted.
Best of luck to you and your friend! If you would like someone to talk to about it, you can PM me. |