to answer one of the questions...my boy has a belly band around his waist but he has been extremely good so far and we do not really use the belly band that much...he uses his xpen and pee pads, so smart already can you believe that?
he has a very sweet and loving personality...he is not an ankle biter by no means...he loves puppy kisses and sleeping on momie's lap...
thanks for all the bday wishes...and let me clarify one other item...Roscoe Pea was my bday gift to myself hehehe...if i left it to my bf, probably he would never think of it in a million years

so my suggestion to those who are dying to have one is to take the initiative yourselves...most men dont really know what we really want
love and peace and have a great weekend y'all