I know it feels bad right now - that's normal - you spent 3 years caring about him - but you will get over it. I know it doesn't seem like it, but you will. Find something now, to occupy your time. Go out with your girlfriends, spend extra time at cheer practice, volunteer at the senior center or anything that interests you, engage in your hobby, read, or do ANYTHING to keep youself occupied so that you don't dwell on the loss. It hurts A LOT right now, it will feel better in a few days, I promise - IF you work to keep busy and do other things that make you happy too!
Now, go eat that ice cream - if you are a size 2, you need a few scoops anyway - and no! you won't be a fat cheerleader. I'm sure you are adorable and will probably have lots of boys knocking at your door now that you are available!!!
Good luck!
__________________  Rex & Rowdy's Mom  |