How rude and how cruel YORKIEDREAMS ! For your information, you have just told me, someone who has Ehlers Danlos Syndrome type 3/4, a hereditory life shortening condition with a 50% chance of passing it on to any offspring, which has meant I have had a lot more operated on than you from the age of 14, and I am now only 39, and shouldn't be here - was told I should have been dead at 30, etc,
that I wouldn't have kids if I knew I had something like that !
Well I have one very blessed daughter, who I
have passed the condition (and more) onto, through no fault of my own as it was in my notes but never relayed to me in time - and do you know something - I wouldn't change having her for the world with all that is disabled about her.
If you say well you never had any more - then I will tell you it wasn't for the lack of trying - I couldn't have any more....which is why I have replaced the kids I never had with my three treasured Yorkies ! My daughter is nearly 17 and will need watching out for, for the rest of her shortened life, but she brings joy and laughter to all who meet her - she is also a stunning looking girl.
So maybe now you can see that I am not being critical per say, I am only trying to tell your overpowering character ...no matter how well intentioned you think you are....that there are other points of view that are equally correct.
DEBRA