This sounds horrible but since that incident I was forbidden to go back (I had gone with relatives from
PR)...I rarely speak to my family over there because I guess I get so caught up in "my life" over here..but I got a phone call from my mom and father's family yesterday telling me the news ..(my father's mother..and they have been divorced for almost 18 years but my mom has always stayed close that side of the family..so out of respect she is going as well...)..I really didn't know her that well..because of the distance barrier..but I here things are okay..but they are using the dollar and it is really hard and expensive over there..which makes people desperate..