[IluvLucy]

I couldn't live with myself if I treated my mother like that. I don't really care for my late husband's mother because of the way she treated me and my kids before he died, but I still wouldn't speak to her like that out of respect for him.

I love my DIL and we have a very good relationship. If we disagree about something, we've always been able to talk about it. I stay out of my son and DIL's marriage and they love me for it.