I have recommended 'scruffing' them but I have never meant picking them up by the skin of the neck. I 'gently' grab the back of their neck and give a little shake and I do mean little and I am not lifting them up at all. Hoku is actually rougher at it with her brother when they are playing than I have ever done. Perhaps I use the wrong terminology when I say 'scruff'. Sorry.
__________________ Eva and her keikis: Hokule'a, Kalani & Pi'ilani |