You are a very sweet person. I am sure this rolls over into other aspects of your personal life as well. I have found throughout my life, people you like and want to help will sometimes take advantage of your generosity. I would go from helping everyone to helping no one, feeling like a martyr. Like you seem to have done, I finally came to a medium where I try to be careful who I choose to help. It is rather sad, but there are a lot of people who want everything handed to them, and take advantage of those of us who are willing.
Keep a big heart and give to those truly deserving. There are a lot of people who are not trying to take advantage of us, but do need us desperately. |