Kitty - how are you feeling today? Have been thinking about you since I read your post yesterday. Adjust the attitudes of the older ones!!! They are old enough to help you out. Let them "fend" for themselves - if they want to eat, let them fix it, if they want clean clothes, they'll have to wash them. If YOU don't do it, then they have to......at least it's worth a try. I am really worried about you and your health. Hysterectomy, no matter the surgical procedure, is a major surgery and it takes time to heal from it. As others have said, let the big stuff go, just do the small things and if that's not enough for the kids, then they'll just have to pitch in. I sure wish I lived closer to you - I'd be there in a heartbeat to help you out!! Take care and let us know how you are doing!
__________________ Suzi - mom to Gabby and Gage  For Mickey |