Kitty I'm so sorry you're having to go thru this. I had my surgery while my ex was out of the country just for that reason. As hard as it was, it was easier without him. You have to try to take care of yourself hun, so many problems can arrise. Wish I had more to offer, I will keep you in my prayers. I will say my health AND my sanity improved greatly after I shed that ugly 250 lbs. and said the words SEE YA!
