I would have agreed with your mom and grandma if your baby wasn't obviously in pain. But clearly she is and for grade 4 the only solution is surgery. My baby was 1 lbs 2 oz when she was spayed and she did just great! I would find a great vet, if you don't already have one and get the surgeries done. These are both very important for her long term health. Something seemingly small can turn into something ugly, such as teeth. Her teeth can potentially cause an infection that her body may not be able to fight off. Just as an example. If I were you I would DEFINITELY do the surgeries. |