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You're expecting a 5 yr old to "know better" but not the adult? :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh: |
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New York state allows children in childcare to be unsupervised outside at the age of 5. |
Children do/know what they are taught.If any child misbehaves,no matter what the age is,there needs to be punishment. If a child acts out..verbally/physically,emotionally, it's the adult in charge at the time...whether it be parent,babysitter,teacher,to teach them wrong form right. I agree,NONE has the right to touch anyone elses child. There are many ways to teach without touch. Consequences to bad behavior. My son is 17 and that rule still applies. Dogs and children are both are unpredictible. Everyone involved know their faults in this. Learn from it and move on. Babysitting means watching 24/7. You need eyes in the back of your head.The parents should be involved in how this situation went down ,and together come up with a plan/punishment. Good Lock to that pup,Let us know how the vet visit goes. |
Well then New York State law su*ks and should be changed, cause thats ridiculous. What I wouldn't do with my own kids I wouldn't do with someone's else. It's common sense, it doesn't take a Nasa scientist to understand that any child under 10 and especially 5 can get into serious trouble if left alone and also kidnapped by some loontune!:rolleyes: |
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oh I agree with you 100 percent. I was just stating a fact. I have a 5 year old child and I know what kind of trouble he can into. ;) As far as them knowing right from wrong, if they arent taught then they dont know. PERIOD.. its not about whether or not they should already no because they are 5, is there a rule book somewhere that states once your child turns 5, he should automatically know this and that. Give me a break. :rolleyes: I agree he shouldnt of done it and I really do feel sorry for the puppy, but he and the dog were unsupervised and things happen. If she was out there with the dog and kid it wouldnt of happen. If you dont want to watch him anymore than dont, its only 1 day a week. If you do continue to watch him than I would keep him and the dog away from each other untill he can be taught how to be around the dog. Good luck, I hope that your puppy didnt suffer any serious damage.:( |
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no biggie.. :thumbup: I cant believe what this thread has turned into. Its very distrubing to know that there are people out there that think hitting a child or someone elses child is ok :thumbdown better yet, lets just throw the kid off the deck :eek:, I mean seriously??? Yet these are the same people that are absoulty horrified by people hitting their dogs and says things like "leave your fiance or husband" because he is tapping the dog on the butt. I really dont get it?? :confused: Hitting anything living thing is WRONG whether it be human or animal!!:mad: To the OP, I really hope that your puppy is ok. Im sooo done with this thread :thumbdown |
Despite what everyone is posting about the five year old and what should or shouldn't be done to him - I can't get past that this 6 month old puppy wasn't taken to the vet immediately after the accident. I know if there was a chance my puppy/dog had a broken leg, I wouldn't be waiting until tomorrow to have it checked.:confused: |
I also watch children from my home, besides my own two. The oldest which is my son is 7 and the youngest is 3. I tell the children when I first start watching them the rules. Which includes no hitting, kicking, or picking up the dogs. The dogs may sit in their lap if they are on the floor, but they are not to pick them up. All my children are great with the dogs and I think if one of the children diid hurt one of my dogs I would talk to their parents and let them know what happend. I would ask them to pay all or half of the vet bill and if they wouldn't then I probably wouldn't watch their child anymore. He is old anough to know better. I am sorry this happend to your baby and I hope she will be okay. |
I work with kids of all ages, learning disabled and not. The main thing is, they DON'T know better, unless they have been TAUGHT to know better. If the parents lack discipline, than the child struggles with what is right/wrong. This is very tragic, and I am so sad for you to have to go through this. I absolutely agree 100% with the person who said to sit the kids down and explain to them the rules with animals. If the child is not experienced with animals, then they're probably not experienced with how to treat them. I am very careful with Lola when I am around children. I am very strict with the kids, because I know the damage they can do (by accident), on such a little creature. I don't think this incident is anyone's fault. However, it's possibly more of a fault towards the parents of the child, for not explaining how to treat animals. I think you should DEFINITELY call the kids parents, and explain what happened. They might even offer to pay the bills?? I would, if it were my child, but you never know with parents these days. I definitely wouldn't allow the child near the dog again, even if you decide to babysit him again. I probably couldn't babysit him again though, cuz of resentment, but that's not a good thing to have. I do wish the best for you and you're little one!! Please keep us updated with what happens. You and your little one are in my thoughts/prayers. Unfortunately, with every accident, there is a lesson to be learned. Not just for you, but for the child as well. I am so sorry, and I hope he gets better soon!!! |
HOW IS THE PUPPY?????? Please keep us updated. |
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I am stunned that anyone would consider a. blaming one child based on the report of another, b. consider asking someone else to reimburse you when YOU were the "responsible" adult on the scene c. not take the puppy to the vet immediately. I always thought breeders who wouldn't place a puppy in a home with young children were really unreasonable, but after reading this thread and seeing the number of people who are willing to place the full blame on this child, I think I'm beginning to understand. |
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I'll watch and hopefully get an update on the puppy but otherwise i'm done with this thread |
I have seen many kids with very good mannerism and upbringing do things to my dogs that I don't expect them too. One minute they are gently petting my yorkies, the next minute they are kicking or hitting. I don't think they are even aware of what they are doing. I have seen time and time again their parents scolding them for what they have done and tell them why they shouldn't but yet the kids do it over and over again. This is not my experience with one child, rather my experience with multiple children with different personalities. I learned not to leave my yorkies unattended with any young children period. Kids under 8 don't have the same mental capacity so you really can't blame them. The only thing you can do is not put your puppy in the hand of a child. You see they act aggressively at times not because they are violent kids but rather they see the pet as a toy. And what does a kid do with his toys? They play and toss them around. I have been told by parents that their kids have been taught how to handle a dog and yet I see them being aggressive with my dogs. Bottom line don't leave small animals unattended with young kids (especially when they are 6 and younger) unless you know 100% that they will not be harmed Why take that chance? |
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