My Love for Yorkies is Fading (fast)
 

I have a Yorkie that I got at 4 months old who is now 18 months old. To this day I keep wondering "What did I do?"

This little dog has been everything contrary to my memories of having a dog as a child. Needless to say, I should have done more research on the breed before I bought the dog.

Potty training is still not what it should be.

He chews/eats EVERYTHING. I want to give him time outside but he eats grass, sticks, pine mulch, insects... So... we go inside. You name it, he'll eat or chew it - carpet, drapes, plants, newspaper, potty pads... (might as well add his feces to the list also) So... back in the crate.

Obedience training? You're joking right? The darn thing only responds when cornered or facing a leather belt.

Walking him tires him out somewhat, but it's only for a season.

I read a few posts on the forum saying that they get better as they get older but I don't know if he'll make it that long (at least with me).

I am considering letting him go but I can't just *give* him away after all that has been spent on him.

The kids want him but they're no help when it comes to training, walking, etc.

I just joined the forum and I guess this was just my opportunity to vent to people who think these dogs are so lovely.
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WOW!:( I am truely saddened by your words. First of all i truely hope you don't hit your dog with the leather belt:mad: :thumbdown Second maybe you can try some bitter apple spray to help with the chewing. You get it at your local pet store they don't like the taste so they don't chew on it. Also try some bully sticks they are chew sticks and the dogs truely love them you can get them at your pet store as well this might help with the chewing of everything else. Potty training is a difficult one Yorkies as do a lot of small dogs have a hard time with this you really need to be patient. I truely hope you can come to peace with your dog or please rehome him it doesn't sound like there is a lot of love going on and maybe he is acting out because he wants attention? As for training try Petsmart they have great training classes that can help you and help you 2 bond as well. Good luck

WOW I'm not sure what to think of your first post. It sounds like you really dont need the dog and are not happy with it at all, These dogs take time to train, and should never have to face a leather belt or any thing other then the word No for training. Yorkies can be the best and most loving dogs. but it does take time and a lot of TLC.

It doesn't sound like you'd want to put more money into the dog, but hiring a trainer would do you a world of good. Belly bands can help with keeping your house from being soiled from his marking. Is he neutered? If not, this can definately affect his crazy personality and potty habits.

I almost didn't respond because when I read the part about the leather belt, my stomache dropped:( But you are asking for help... Please don't ever hit your dog, aggression only teaches aggression. Not to mention how dangerous to your little dog and the cruelty of it.

I just wanted to add Welcome to yorkie talk and please there are a lot of helpful threads here you can read if you hit the button search in the blue bar above and type in a topic like "potty training" or "chewing" Belly bands" you will find many threads with good info on them as well. I hope we can help you

Hi, welcome to YT! I understand that you don't want to just "give" your yorkie away, however, the situation doesn't seem to be working for you or your family...and perhaps even your yorkie...so maybe you should seriously consider re-homing the yorkie.

I'm sure you mean well by coming here and trying to seek advice and vent, but if it's already been 14 months and it's still not working, it's probably time to move on. I'm sure that there is someone out there that will be willing to look after this yorkie or even buy them from you. Either way, it seems as though you're getting some wonderful advice from people on here. Good luck!

Hi I just wanted to say welcome to YT. Im sure you will learn a lot here. There is a lot of wonderful people here. any pictures of your little Yorkie?

I seriously hope you are not hitting your yorkie. I am so angry just thinking about that!

Unless you are just having a bad day and venting, this does not seem like the breed for you. They need TONS of understanding and patience, and obedience training as well.

Dogs chew because they are bored or stressed, or a combination of both. Do you sufficiently play with and tire out the little guy? Does he have appropriate chew and interactive toys?

Have you ever attempted obedience with a professional? Many people think they know what they are doing and completely mess up their dogs training going it alone because of incorrect techniques and misinformation.

I'd SERIOUSLY suggest rehoming and I hope you do not keep a dog that isn't right for your family strictly based on monetary value. A life is priceless and I think the least you could do is provide that for him with someone that would adore him.

sad th hear you are not happy ....
 

I suggest that you may not have done enough in the proper way.:2omg:

I do not wish to be rude but Yorkies are delicate animals
and need time to play, and also need to know when NOT to play ...

give your baby some time and special loving ...

some people I know have taken their Yorkies to Petco for light training and it seems to have worked ...
perhaps if you invest some 'loving' time in him, you will be very surprised. Yorkies are happy to please their "parents" ...

and please do not even think of using the belt ...

frightening your dog is not the way to train it to be responsible.

There are many capable people on here who shall be able to help you.
And probably many more who just might be willing to provide a better home for it, if that is the route you choose to go.


Do not give up .:embarasse.. good luck in your endeavors

I, too, think you should consider rehoming this dog.

You said you couldn't give him away after all you've spent on him, but think of this - if you keep him, you are only going to be spending more money on him. Best to find him a new home or, better yet, contact a rescue organization in your area.

PS. Are you related to Nodak?

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I really think that this poor little guy would be better off in a loving home with a family that will love and appreciate him. He needs owners who will take the time to really cherish him and understand him for who he is. With a patient owner all the problems you have described could be solved, but if this is what you think about him then I don't think you are the person to do that. You don't deserve him.

Sounds like you both would feel better if your little yorkie was rehomed. I have found that Yorkies are a very smart breed and very eager to please. I had my little guy since he was six months old and had him fully house trained in two weeks. BUT, it takes patience (not a belt beating), time, effort and consistency to train "any" dog. The key is how much time you are willing and have to invest in them. They are so cute and so nice for cuddle time but it also takes work to train them. Just sounds like he needs some "kind" training.

Oh, and Welcome to YT!

I think the dog needs to be rehomed. I really hope you arent hitting the dog with the belt. That is anmal cruelty. Anyway its no wonder he wont train for you. He is scared of you. Just rehome him its in his best interest

Any scare tactic wont work with a dog or a human for that matter...I certainly hope that isnt what are you are trying to accomplish..scaring him to get him to do what you want..I see your frustrated and yes you should have done research before buying a dog..but whats done is done...this is the best spot to rehome him as the members here have extensive knowledge of the breed and we are always happy to add another member to our YT family..

Dawn

you shouldn't have a yorkie much less any live pet! try a chia plant ...seriously! jmho and you should think of the pets best intrest and find it a great home not just worry about the money you spent!

First of I wanted to welcome you to Y.T.....I'm sure this was hard to admit out loud to a group of people knowing it was not going to be received well....

It has been a whole year that you have been trying to form some kind of bond with this pet...by your own post it clearly has not worked out as you had hoped or anticipated....clearly your not happy, and I would wager a bet this pup would rather be with someone else also.....

It should be explained to the children that this situation is just not right or fair for the pup and it would be selfish and cruel to keep him and they need to do what's right for him ... he needs a home where he would be happier....you could tell them you'll find a pet that is more suited for you guys....

If your major concern is for what you'll be "out" of by rehoming this pet then I need to say your priorties need an adjustment.....cut your losses now, everyday that pup remains in your home is another day you live with resentment and regrets, a yorkie is not for everyone, they are a lot of work, they can be a high maintenance pet, I hope you keep this in mind and find him a more suitable home soon for everyones sake ...Good luck....

I'm sorry but you really need to rehome him. If your really hitting him with a belt stop. That's horrible. I have a pit that doesn't always listen, and I wouldn't even hit him with a belt. You need to take into advice what everyone has told you, and if you can't comply or work it out. Let him go.

We don't "think" these dogs are so lovely...we KNOW they are. We also realize that having patience and compassion goes along with owning any pet.
It infuriated me to see the words "the darn thing","cornered" and "facing a leather belt". If I were the breeder of your puppy I'd see to it he was returned and taken away from that treatment. I also hope you are not teaching your children to threaten animals with belts and I certainly hope you are not actually striking him with it.
I guess this was my oppotunity to vent.
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I am in Wallkill---Hi neighbor!-------I would be more than happy to help you train your little guy as well as you so that you can feel the love. I have been working with dogs since High School--(nearly 30 years ago)--raised Eyes for the Blind pups.

Seriously-----most "dog" training is more about the "owner" understanding dog behaviour and learning how to work them.

The chewing thing can be as basic as boredom. He needs exercise and some "work." Training and then the continued working of the basic commends gives them brain exercise. Of course the right toys and chews will help too.;)

Don't give up and don't run from this forum because you feel like you're being called out by people who are concerned for the dog (rightly so).

Please PM me if you'd like help. This can have a happy turn around.:)

To get a good trained dog it takes time, and YOU have to be working with him. Potty traiing is something that will take time, if you are not watching him 24-7. You need to take him to an obedience class, and then you need to be the one in charge not him.

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I just joined the forum and I guess this was just my opportunity to vent to people who think these dogs are so lovely.
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Sorry, you didn't change our minds.:rolleyes: If you are itting this dog with a belt , you need to rehome him now. He probably already will have lifetime issues because of that.Shame on you!

this is a very nice offer

I'd really like to help them.:cool:

How would you like someone hitting you with a belt ? Maybe you'll learn how to behave too .

okay folks, here's what I think and you know I speak plain. This dog needs to be removed immediately from this home before he gets angry and kicks it to death. To all those of you telling him to take more time, no, time is not what's needed. This person is abusing an animal by hitting it with a belt and should even be reported to the authorities before he kills it unless he comes to his senses and rehomes it right away. This is animal cruelity. The poor little dog knows how he feels.

OK before you all get upset, lets look at this post.
It was started at 10:30 last night. It's the very 1st post.
RED FLAG!
The darn thing only responds when cornered or facing a leather belt.


Now we all know how big this site is, and some people out there have nothing to do but try and upset others and then sit back and watch. (yep, sad but true).
If this poster really wants help, we have a member who has offered help.
(Very nice of you AngelWorks:thumbup: )
I think we should wait and see if this poster comes back and responds to the help being offered. If not, I guess we will know it's just another nothing to do better poster.

Just trying to save you all from being upset.This is the net, some people like to play games, I'm not one of them.
Hope you all have a wonderful day.:hearts-xx

I agree that rehoming might be a good option for you if you do not want to take training classes. Maybe the chewing is out of attention. I dunno. I would never hit anything with a belt! Human, animal, or even a tree outside. I just wouldn't have it in me. What would happen if you hit your dog with a belt and broke a bone and left a mark. Then you would have to take it to the vet and you would be in a world of trouble then. Sometimes human kids are hard to potty break as well, so that means everytime they have an accident they need hit? :confused: I'm sorry to say but not every pet is gonna be a miracle, esp. a puppy, no matter what breed you get. Maybe you should give pets a break for a little while.

I agree.

This cant be for real:mad: Thats all i can say right now:mad: I have to go take care of my 4 loving furbabies:) :)