May have to sell/ give away Reese :-(

[tlakva]

I am so sad you guys.............
My little Reese, 4 1/2 months old, 2.5 lbs just isn't working out for us. I have 4 year old twins, and they are just too rough for her. I am so sad, and feel guilty about her living here thinking that she could have a better home. I am SO attached to her and have had her for 2 1/2 months . But in the best interest of Reese, I think we need to let her go. Selfishly I would LOVE to keep her...........but I don't know if it is the right thing to do. I thought I would have been able to " teach " the kids to be gentle with her, but I am not sure I can protect her enough. Do you know anyone who has had to give up thier furbaby due to not being the right family for the dog ? I am sorry to unload my feelings on you all, but I am not sure what to do.

[RingoStarr]

I am sad for you but if you feel that you are doing what is best for Reese then do what need be. I am sure you have all of our support...you have mine!!!!

[rrosenberry]

Oh that is so sad, but I understand what you are saying, when Bailey was a pup, I was so worried about him, getting hurt, and I have NO kids.
Keep us posted on what you decide to do. And YES, there has been a few on here that had to find their babies other homes, they will reply I'm sure.

[Patti]

I am so sorry! They are so fragile and with two little ones it is risky. Is there anyone in your family that could take her?

[YorkieRose]

Hi
I am so sorry to hear about Reese..a good dog owner does what is best for the dog. Do what you feel is best, do not let anyone try to make you deel bad about your decision...and next time someone with small children jumps on me for refusing to let them have one of my puppies, I will let you talk with them...thanks

[Thorsmomma]

I know this must be such a sad decision for you to come to but in the end you are being a responsible owner and keeping you precious furbaby's best interests in mind. It is a wise, and (I'm sure) difficult decision that you are having to make but if you are weighing all the options, wouldn't it be better you find a new home for him rather than he end up seriously injured by one of your human babies? I think that you may feel guilt in either decision that you make, but ultimately, the choice is yours (as you know) and I'm sure as a loving mother (of human and furkid) you will make the right decision. Good luck in your choice. I hope you will find peace.

[yougetthesmiles]

I'm so sorry to hear this news! Maybe some family or a friend could take him for you. It would be so hard to give up your puppy. Please keep us informed.

[Yorkieville200]

Originally Posted by tlakva

I am so sad you guys.............
My little Reese, 4 1/2 months old, 2.5 lbs just isn't working out for us. I have 4 year old twins, and they are just too rough for her. I am so sad, and feel guilty about her living here thinking that she could have a better home. I am SO attached to her and have had her for 2 1/2 months . But in the best interest of Reese, I think we need to let her go. Selfishly I would LOVE to keep her...........but I don't know if it is the right thing to do. I thought I would have been able to " teach " the kids to be gentle with her, but I am not sure I can protect her enough. Do you know anyone who has had to give up thier furbaby due to not being the right family for the dog ? I am sorry to unload my feelings on you all, but I am not sure what to do.

Many years ago, when my now, 31 year old son, was a little guy, I was at the other end of the spectrum, and could not keep a German Shepard puppy, my sister had found abandoned, because my son was just too little. It broke my heart, because in the few months we had him, I became so attached!

So, I understand how hard this decision is for you. My puppy went to the absolute best home, where he was much loved his entire life.

I give you a lot of credit for considering what is best for Reese.

Today, my son is grown and married, and hubby is retired and we are owned by two wonderful Yorkies. So, when your kids are grown up, you could get a tiny Yorkie.

While your little ones are growing up, maybe you could consider a medium sized dog.

Good Luck in your decision.

Sheila

[tsehasd]

I feel bad for you. That is a tough call to make. I will let you know that we live in Michigan and have just started to look for a playmate for our 9 month old Sophie. If you do decide to let her go, please let me know. My email address is tsdamon@sbcglobal.net.

[mustangbee]

You are doing what is best for Reese. Yes, it will be hard, but you want both your Children and your Furbaby to always be safe. Maybe some one in your family can step in, this way you will always know how Reese is doing.
Best of luck to you.

[whispersmom2]

Do what is best for Reese...and that sounds as if giving him up is the best decision for his safety and the enjoyment of a family pet for y'all. I tell people all the time that I do not place with families with small children and there are several reasons. One is that the family might have to make this heart-breaking decision. Another is because the very thing that makes a child a loving, gentle pet owner is the same thing that has to be considered when it is time for the child to become the doggy police with their friends.
The sweetest and gentlest kids can have very rough friends and it is not fair of the pet owner to expect other children to be as gentle with a Yorkie as the dog needs..
DO NOT FEEL so bad at making this decision. The breeder from whom you got Reese should be happy to take him back and refund all or a portion of your money. They share some responsibility in this situation, too. I do feel sad for your family BUT I think it is extremely important that you help your children understand that this is NOT their fault. Sometimes we just have to try things and keep trying til we find the best fit. In your family a medium to larger size dog might be the best choice. remember you are gonna be an empty nester some day and a little Yorkie will be the perfect fit...
We are here for you when you need us..

[Avery'sMom]

I had to let my Avery go to another home a year ago.......It is a very hard thing to do, but my circumstances were a lot like yours. I had a very rough little one that just scared me to death with Avery. I was like you...I thought that I could teach him and that we would have rules like no holding the puppy while standing, etc. but it just wasn't working. It broke my heart to have to let Avery go, but he went to another YT member who still keeps me updated with pics......I've gotten to watch him grow up into a beautiful boy. I did what was best for Avery...not a day goes by that I don't think of him, but I know that I did what was right for him.

Good luck with your decision, and if you need anyone to talk to...don't hesitate to PM me!

[tlakva]

You are all so sweet in responding. I am so thankful that I can come to you with my concerns. Thank you everyone who has responded. I will be in touch and let you know what comes of this ((HUGS))

[livingdustmops]

I applaud you for having the courage and love to maybe come to this decision. I usually keep my thoughts to myself about Yorkies and small children but because of rescue I have seen to many times the tragic end of this combination, either in the death of the Yorkie or the Yorkie biting the children. You have a wonderful heart to be so concerned about your little one and I hope you can find peace in doing the right thing. If I can help in anyway please let me know.

[bugaboosmom]

IMO I think the breeder should have considered the Right Puppy for the Right home. I hate to tell people with small children that I don't believe a little yorkie is right for their lifestyle.
Now there is heart break. Small children cannot be blamed for being rough they are not yet mature enough to know.
I think you are doing a great thing before something bad happens.
I usually recommend a larger breed for families with small children.