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Yes I did already answer that in #26, thank you myteddybear! I joined here when I had Chloe and don't know how to change my profile name yet. I don't have a problem with taking advice(good or bad) on something that I feel they know more about than I do but for someone to be down right cruel is a different thing. I understand that you all love yorkies and I respect the fact that you defend them whenever possible but my situation with Chloe is in the past and what is done is done,as sad as it may be to you,I feel like I done the best thing that I knowed to do for Chloe at the time. My husband isn't a mean person and would never do anything physically to hurt anything but I felt like the stress it was causing wasn't good for her or anybody else. AND....I didn't just leave her outside like you are making it sound. Go back and read the whole thing and you will know that! I was asking if it was a good idea or not. |
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Well the whole story kinda happened to me. DH said no dog at all. Kids asked numerous times, he got upset and said NO! Rehomed the DH... just kidding:). I asked him every few weeks, finally he saw the pictures, asked me if I really wanted a puppy and I said YES! He surprised the kids after school one day and they were so excited for our Bailey to come home! 1 1/2 later... Bailey and him are BFF's for life. Every day, shes the one who is most excited to see, dances for him, listens to him the best, snuggles him... I could go on. He also calls her "puppa" because he says she can't pernounce puppy; what ever that means:confused::D. Bailey is wrapped around his little finger so well. I hope all works out for u, but I would wait for a while to get another one. You had to put 2 dogs through enough... wouldn't want to hurt another one:animal-pa. Especially a :aimeeyork. But, I don't know what is best for you, and I hope you choose the best option right for your family. :) |
I do hope not outside, but likely so if hubby doesn't like indoor dogs. I hate to see any dog big or small living outside. No point in having them if they have to stay outside IMO. |
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:thumbup::thumbup: In my world, there is no such thing as an outside dog! Dogs want to be with their families, not all alone outside. OP, it doesn't sound like a good situation to bring another animal into. |
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It's sad when someone comes to a public forum, throws it out there, and thinks everyone is gonna take their side and all will be right with "their world". The problem as I see it, is you want it all in your world no matter the price. I believe you said your husband did NOT want a dog. Well, that would be the end of that discussion, next! You went behind his back and did it anyway. Are we understanding you better now? People come to forums such as this to learn, make friends and share information. It's called a public forum. The members have a right as they see fit to respond to each and every post as they wish. If you want to call it a judgement, that works for me. I call it a response. Either get rid of the husband or don't get another dog. Oh and to answer your original question, you're husband is not the problem . . . . |
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I did have a problem with DH, and I DID rehome him;) Not Kidding and no regrets:) I Love Yorkies and I want them to be part of my life. My babies are my life and every decision I make involves them, actually it surrounds them. To me if a man or anyone cannot love animals the way I do then they are not someone who I want to spend my time with, but this is just my opinion and of course my life. I agree with every one else about not getting another yorkie or any other dog until you are ready for it to be a full time part of the family just like your kids are. I could not imagine someone telling me that my son has to go and I feel the same way about my yorkies. |
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Well my hubby hates inside pets too but...Tibbs and Bella are here to stay and he is not so hateful now lol! Bella is his baby until she pees by his computer chair lol then he is like "come get your dog!!!!" but he did agree for me to get them both! He bought Tibbs for me when I graduated nursing school. He has said "Im givin them away" and "if that dog pee's in my floor one more time" but that was went we were having a hard time potty taring . Now they use pads most of the time lol! |
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:bravo: I am glad you defended your self. I have been here a few wks, and while this hasn't happened to me, I see far too many people getting attacked, insulted and degraded for posting a simple question. This should be a place people actually ENJOY coming to, to learn and socialize. But with the attitude of some people on here, it makes it very hard to enjoy hanging out around here. I know I will get attacked for this statement. But Im saying how I feel, just how you all say how YOU feel! |
Some call it being attacked others call it differences of opinions. When I first came to YT. I felt I was being attacked also and I was going to leave but then I put on my big girl panties and realized , everyone has a right to their own opinion. I have made great friends here and I have learned to take the good with the bad. Some of the people I felt were attacking me turned out to be the ones who helped me the most in my times of need. When I got Sadie, Dh told me if I brought her home that he would divorce me. Well he is still here and now he brings home a treat for his puppies every night. Cracks me up. He comes in the door from work and the first thing out of his mouth is ,,,wheres my puppies. I am sorry that you feel you were attacked but I did not see one person attack you just state their opinions. Some are harsher than others but that is what makes the world go round. After being on YT for some time, and seeing some of the things I have seen. I now understand why some are so strong about their beliefs in certain situations. Hope it all works out for you. |
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