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Just FYI...Gizmo was not very affectionate at first either. He did not want to be held or "confined" in any way. I don't think he was around people much as a puppy. After he came to trust me (after months not weeks) he started to slowly snuggle closer. Now he darn near pushes me out of the bed at night! :rolleyes: He will also sleep on my lap or my feet and watches for me any time I leave the room. He's even made a little bed for himself by my sewing machine to be closer to me. Please give it time. |
I'm still wondering when both my puppies are going to settle down a little bit and pay attention and listen to me - and they are 10 months old and are STILL with their mother. :D However, they are both very well potty trained and that's good enough for me. The rest will come with time and patience and hard work. |
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At the same time, she needs to know that it could change some. It could improve a lot actually, but to the level she wants it? Probably not. Could she still love this baby with his flaws and all? Would it really be in his best interest to be rehomed? I don't know. I would ask someone in rescue before I made such a suggestion. I know you have the interest of the yorkie in mind. I don't doubt that for a moment, but would rehoming really be better than finding a way for these two to discover a compromise? |
I am praying she can take time to learn to love her baby so this can be his forever home. I think she may be just overwhelmed. I know I was when I got my first yorkie, but I had dogs all my life. Tessie is just very stubborn. |
Your Yorkie sounds a lot like mine. He is 2 now and gets more loving with time. What you descibe sounds like a typical Yorkie. I do agree that agility would probably help, but he is too young for that yet in my opinion. |
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I want to thank the many posters on this forum who are understanding, helpful and truly interested in helping new yorkie owners, such as myself get thru a rough period of adjusting. I am very thankful that you're here for those of us who have never had prior experience and who are desperately trying to make it work. Your advice is greatly appreciated and I can feel that you're truly more interested in helping, than casting blame on those less experienced. In some of your stories I can tell you really do understand and can relate to us. Others stories are downright funny, lighthearted and are a great relief to me and I feel that maybe one day I can be as good a yorkie owner as you. I can tell most of you are compassionate people and your advice is helpful both to puppy and owner. I hope one day I can return the favor by helping someone else by giving them good advice and never shooting someone down who is already feeling helpless. |
Don't give up.. It will just take time. Each month my two show me somthing new in their personality. Maybe try playing Hide and seek... Get a yummy treat like cheese...have some one hold him while you hide behind a chair so he sees you. then call him... when he runs over to you for the treat. Squeal and say Good boy!!!! give him kisses..... Just make a big deal out of it. Work up to hiding where he has to find you. Also, maybe try putting Peanut butter on your chin or lips if you want to let him lick it off. maybe take a puppy class if he's old enough. Just some ideas |
I went to puppy course with my other yorkie Snickers.. he was not so cuddly in the beginning,. and cpuld be pretty stuborn, but he was a very fast learner.. and when i took time to sit one on one with him and every day a 20 min training he did soooo much better. your baby is very small too and i got snickers when he was 8 weeks too. very young., but in the Netherlands its normal. Be patient.. and remember she is only 13 weeks. Sometimes it also helps when you ignore her not to pick her up. Then in my expericence.. they come to ou to get the attention. Reward her when she is relaxed on your lap with a small tread.. (just her food or something) and also praise her when she is coming to you. :) They are very smart.. and I know for sure you will love everyday more and more. some babies take more time.. but at the end it worth it to have the patient. :D Good luck! xxxxx Quote:
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My Roxie is not much of a cuddler. She is independent and stubborn and will spend time with us on her terms. She hates being picked up, and she will run away faster than a speeding bullet if she thinks you have even the remotest thought of picking her up. When she feels like it, she will come and sit with us on the couch, and give sloppy kisses, but she is certainly no lap dog. I hope you don't give up! |
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