It doesn't sound like Maddie is anything less than a sweetie, with a few things to work on (like all of us!)
I can only tell you what has worked for us. First off though is Patience! They are not on our time schedule for learning, so as frustrating as things can be, being patient and calm is essential.
Regarding pooping - I would say as long as she doesn't go for a few days without going and there are no other signs of distress, not to worry. Sometimes they run like clockwork, sometimes not.
We taught Mia (now 16 mo) the word "Wait". So if she won't stand still to get her harness on, or jumps up on us to reach something, etc., we can simply say "Wait" and she will stop whatever she's doing. That has helped us with being excited when someone is at the door as well.
Maybe a friend could help you with training her, practice knocking or ringing bell.
Without anyone at door, have Maddie back away from door 5 ft or so. Stand in front of her assertively and tell her to back up. If she remains away from the door and is CALM, then give her a little treat/praise etc. You can actually practice in any part of your house using same command so that she becomes familiar with it. Then try it with a friend knocking, don't open the door until you've got her away from door sitting very calmly.
These little sweethearts love to learn, to please but can also be stubborn. Mia isn't food driven, she loves praise and affection. It makes training a bit more difficult, but I adore our little girl more than words can say! |