Hi,
I didn't get back straight away, wanted to see if things had worked for me and thanks Lizchloe for your reply also, this has given me loads of help. Well what I have done, he is on some homeopathic treatment, I give him 3 little balls of Gelsemium 15ch, 3 of chamomilla vulgaris 9ch and 3 of ignatia amara. These dessolve in some water and he drinks this after his meal at night, 7pm. He already has some devils claw (plant) in powder form, half a cap 3 times a week, this is for his back. We then cut a hole in the door gate that prevents the dogs going up the stairs, lined the stairs with non slip material and put his little niche bed in our room so it's looking at me.
I have understood that because he is going deaf and blind,and dimentia, he is very insecure. Now for 3 nights he is as good as gold, he knows he has to stay in his little bed and we don't hear a peek out of him. The cats still go on the bed, no problem and now they can go downstairs and out again, as Rex isn't making this awful crying noise. This morning, he didn't get up until 7.45, had a little accident at the top of the stairs, think he left it too late to go down, but then went down very slowly and out to do his poo. He didn't come back up this morning as we were still in bed, but he can if he wants, he just went with the other two and didn't say a word. I have chosen the white on the stairs because when it's dark he can't see and tends to fall in the stairs, when they have this film growing over the eyes they can only see light images, also we have left the bathroom door open up stairs, so it's the natural light outside once the day comes showing through the window. The treatment he is on is calming him down generaly, he doesn't panic so much when I go outside with out him.
I have enclosed some photos so you can see what we have done. It was so sad to see him like he was and very upsetting, and in a reply to what was said also, a few friends of mine said if they came back in this life once gone, they would love to be a cat or dog in our home, so that must tell you that we really do our best for our animals. Well many thanks again, just wish I had thought about this forum before, but it's never too late, now my little Rex is happier and everyone in the house is able to wake up naturally. He is a very clean boy so will put some news paper at the top of the stairs in case he is too late again. Bye for now and will be in touch
Thanks to those who have helped me. Brittany29