I really do hope you go with the spay. I understand wanting the family experience of raising puppies and such, but that can be done by volunteering at a vet's office, human society, spca, or even the zoo. There are so many unwanted dogs and puppies right now that are a result of "let's see what it's like" and the owners not thinking long term down the road. I did it by accident for a dog I rescued off the side of the interstate. I took her in to hopefully find her owners or a new home, not realizing she was already pregnant and that is likely the reason she was thrown out on the interstate. I have three children so they witnessed this event of birthing 9 puppies from this six MONTH old abandoned mommy dog. While it was a magical moment and heart-tugging, it is extremely costly, tiresome, stressful, and heartbreaking when you have to find home for those babies you grew to love. Yes there are rewards but in the end it's not worth it unless you in it for the long haul. It's not as easy as just getting a box with some blankets. You have to have a play area for the puppies cause they will mess on EVERYTHING. You have to have a rest away area for the mommy when she needs alone time. Instead of a vet bill for one, you will have a vet bill for multiples.
Please think about volunteering or even renting the movie "Milo and Otis" is really want to witness the miracle of birth from a dog. I agree that kids should see this momentous event, but not at the risk of your baby and not at the risk of innocent puppies either.
That's just my opinion. I'm hoping I didn't come off too harsh, as that was NOT my intent. And I agree with the others - for your vet to encourage the risk to your baby was irresponsible on his part.
God bless. |