Just a word, how he's acting now right while he is still injured, hurting and on pain meds, won't necessarily be how he acts when he is well and feeling himself again. Jilly acted like you described - and worse - almost catatonic - until she was post-op and her wounds mostly healed. Once she was out of pain and off the pain medicine and antibiotics, she was back to being herself. It was the most amazing transformation I've ever seen.
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