Sometimes it is better to give yourself a little time to recover emotionally. It is a big loss. Just make sure that your heart has healed enough to accept the new baby for who and what they are a new individual.
I have clients who come to me after loosing a Yorkies and they want the new baby to be a carbon copy of the original. Unfortuantely that can not be. Do accept this new addition to be just what it is. A brand new start on life with it's own personality and the gift of love to give to you and your family.
You will always remember the baby that you lost in your heart and they have a way of smiling from above and helping you thru this time of hurt. They want you to remember the good times and to continue in their memory. |