Thanks everybody so much. It was really nice to wake up and read all the lovely comments! I really felt like she was sent from above
I didn't mention after the thunderstorm and on our way home the sky just imediately cleared up! She is just like a younger verison of my dear Stormy. I bet everything Stormy would of been if she was healthy and I bet she is watching out for us now! I thought maybe I was crazy for thinking something like "it was ment to be" but its nice to have people to believe in me.
Mscat you were not being negative at all, I don't mind someone putting it into your words as words of caution. My fiancee is not a trainer but for the past month he has taken to VERY strict training with her and she has improved a huge amount in the last month. We have increased her outdoor time and it has really helped alot with her attitude indoors. She's usually to tired to do anything but lay around. A fear of mine is and still will always be what happens when I am not home, but I am a mom and I worry about everything and anything when I am away from home! I have started to take Lola to work with me again the days that I can, and if I can't I am gone a few hours. My fiancee understands the dangers and has been very content to keep her safe. We have all stepped it up, my bullie isn't even aloud to "touch" her at all. No rough playing in the house PERIOD! If she wants to play with a toy, she gets put in the kitchen with her toy to play with the gate up. My daughter has become SO careful too. She is constantly on watch and saying things like " no Geneva you have to be careful because you can hurt Lola" She is always talking about something like that all day long now. She says it's her baby from Stormy and she has to keep her safe for Stormy! It is heartbreaking but it is so good to see her happy again. We were having a tough time with her the past month she was acting out really bad and when she would be put in her room sometimes she would cry for Stormy. She said to us when we were about to leave the ladies house " don't worry daddy I won't be sad any more ".
We are moving soon hopefully, still looking for the right place but we have a couple we like that we will check out this weekend. Each has more space and an extra room so one of the dogs can be in there if have to be. They both have crates, each goes in a crate in a seperate room when we are not home. And I don't even leave her in a room with my bullie if I am going pee! NO Chances! so far things have been excellent and my bullie has not even tried to play with her in the house. At the park though we play fetch and she enjoys Lola running a decent distance away from her.