geez louise....sounds like she's full of excuses. She will not get better untils he gets out of denial and allows herself to admit that she got herself into her own mess. Her family did a number on her, I believe that, but no one can mess up your life unless you allow them to. That is a terrible thing that her parents did to her, and I am sure she has a lot of unresolved feelings about that. My mother in law lost her 4th child. Her uterus ruptured during labor. She did not deal with that pain for over 25 years, until she was in AA. Once you can heal from that pain, you can then realize that you cannot allow yourself to use that as a crutch any longer.
I sure hope that she can start healing so that this cycle does not keep going with this child.
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