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Originally Posted by Gidget01  I think we all have to remember that we are all different people and since some of us don't know each other personally we don't know how each other talks. When things are typed you can interpret them differently than the way they were meant. Some people are more passionate or dramatic and it shows but to some it may come across to as rude or over exaggerated. We need to keep that in mind when we ask questions and get responses we don't like that it is easy to read more into them because we are looking for harsh comments and not really reading the advice. We are human and do want to defend ourselves but can't we all just get along. Not everything has to be sugar coated and really we don't all have to like each other. Lets grow up and put on our big girl/guy panties/underwear on and appreciate the time & advice given instead of bad mouthing them cause we didn't like it. If you didn't like it thats fine. Listen to the ones you did like but remember you probably didn't like it cause it just may have been true.
We are losing a great breeders advice cause some people don't know how to take the advice given. I have seen so many times where people are whining about a rude comment and I read it and didn't think it was rude at all. Be careful how you read your responses before accusing people of being rude. Now some people are rude. But I just ignore them cause they are just looking for drama. |
I agree with this post so.. much. Everyone is different, why do so many feel they are the experts when it comes to Yorkies. Use kind words, so.. some people learn more slowly then others, everyone isn't perfect, the world isn't perfect. Donna if your tired of being the person with all the answers by all means take a break. Come back when you fell able to make a positive post and not pick at those who make you sit on your fingers.