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Originally Posted by Yorkieville200  Dee,
I have to say, I agree with you. I think the DIL is using the Yorkie as a scapegoat. She can't say straight out she doesn't want her MIL living with them. If Kathy gives up her baby, her DIL will only find something else to complain about.
I think, before the relations become anymore strained, maybe they should check out some rentals for seniors/disabled as you said. A friend of mine in WA has a sister-in-law with MS. She is on government aid, has been able to stay in her own home and someone comes in cooks, cleans, does her laundry.
Help is out there. I hope Kathy comes back and reads this thread and learns there may be other options for her. I really hope she won't give up her baby.
Sheila |
I agree that your DIL has a problem with your living with them and taking it out on the dog, she cannot hurt you in her mind as your son would see this. so she hurts you through your dog..
I always think this saying below is so true.
A daughter is a daughter the rest of her life
A son is a son until he takes a wife.
My mother always felt this, and I made sure that with my hubby, I remembered his feelings and that his parents were just that his parents and needed to be as respected as they should be.
Some woman can and do get very jealous of there MIL.
I think she needs a wake up call on her abuse to your molly. My heart goes out to you and her in the situation your in.
I am sure there are other places to live for it sounds like you would be much happier and better off if you could find a place that will take your dog. I think I would rather live with your dog then you DIL.
And your son needs to hear how your heart is feeling and why you need the dog, and that someday he may find himself in a similar situation. That is when Karma comes into play.
I wish you were closer so I could give you a big hug right now.
pooh's mum