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Originally Posted by Stella's mom  Your quote:
"So I have a couple of choices, stay with him and deal with all of the kisses and hugs that i have to give him and try to change and hope that he changes and does something with his life or leave."
I've read your post at least 3 times and I'm trying to figure out what about yourself you should try to change. You go to school, work, spend time with your family and take care of Oliver. You don't have outrageous debt and it sounds like you would like a stable future, sorry but it doesn't sound like you are the one that needs to change for this relationship to work.
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I do agree with you that i dont feel that i really need to change but he thinks that I am not "into our relationship" i guess and so thats what he thinks that i need to change. But what he doesnt realize is that I back down on the relationship when finals week comes around and when other stresses of life come about.