Blood shot eyes - suspicious

[ilovelouie]

Want to hear from you Mona. Please let us know how you are doing. We care about you.

[barbg402]

Mona, I just read your post. You are so brave to take these steps to protect your daughter and fur-baby. Let time be your healer!
You will find someone wonderful to share your life with and it will be someone who shares your passion for your daughter and fur-kid.
Never, never have second doubts when a dog cowards or dislikes a person. There defiantly is a reason for it no matter how server or slight the reason may be. The dog has a built in radar system that tells him or her when they are in danger or with people who may hurt them.
Good luck honey, know that we are all here for you.

[LaviniaHyacynth]

Mona, I have been following this thread and you should really be commended for taking this step. Everyday you read in the paper about a woman that stayed in a bad ar suspected bad situation only to suffer terrible abuse herself or witness abuse of her children. It took guts to do what you did and I hope that your sweet furbaby can now relax and feel safe. My prayers and wishes that your heart will mend and you will find that Sweet man that you so deserve

[jenstals]

Mona,

WHat you did was very brave and I am sure very difficult!! Please let us know that you are doing ok! We are all worried about you!

Jen

[Wrenee4]

I think the bloodshot eyes is very odd. What did the vet say about this? Ours have never had this happen to them? I would be very worried about it.

As with your little girl...has she been fearful of other men? I had a schnauzer that just passed away last year (13yrs) that was scared to death of men. I think perhaps she was abused at the breeders before we got her by a man - but of course I'm not sure. It took her about two months to get used to my husband when she first met him. Every time he would move she would bark like mad! After two months she decided he was her best friend and almost forgot about me! LOL So it really depends - I knew Jessie had issues with men before hand so it really didnt suprise me with her actions. Perhaps if you find out he isnt doing anything to your baby training could help. Just thought I would chime in my 2 cents worth

[Kate]

I am just now reading this thread for the first time.

I think the fact that you even reached out like you did, and question everyone, tells the story. You had a gut reaction, and you followed your heart.

I applaud you for what you did. It is not easy. I know you are feeling down, but it could have been worse. You lost your boyfriend, but you still have your precious Yorkie.

One last thought - does he have a house key?

Take care.

Kate

[mylittletigger]

Girl, you did the right thing. I know it hurts really badly, but just think you've got two things sitting by you that will always be there for you regardless of what you do or who you are. some men just aren't that forgiving.

Believe me, some men are that nice. It's just really hard to find them. I've met one, thought I had met two(but then he decided moving away from me was best). Girl, don't give up. You did the right thing, and you'll find the one for you before you know it. You know what they say when you're not looking that's when you'll find him.

[whispersmom2]

I just finished reading this thread. I am no animal whisperer, but I do have some insights along those lines---------sometimes. Anyhow, your baby was severely injured-her psyche if not physically. I am thinking she was yelled at very loudly whilst being shaken-shaken baby syndrome causes some of the symptoms you describle..red eyes, petechia (tiny red pinpoint rash-like lesions) and of course that terrified response. Also, I am thinking some solution from a spray bottle-cleaning solutions or similar, were used.
I have been a victim of abuse and have counselled abused kids and adults and this is one example of abuse. IMO Why am I telling you all this? AND, REMEMBER I DO NOT KNOW YOU OR YOUR BF OR DOG, animal abuse very quickly progresses into spouse/children abuse. I am so sorry to hear about your baby but you might have just been saved from more than you can know.
Swoop that youngun up and give her hugs and smoochies til the hurt is better-for both of you.
If I have offended you or any poster on this forum, I would like to apologize, but in all honesty, I don't think I can. This is serious business and hopefully the cycle is broken..Bless you.
PM me if you would like or tell me to butt out, but there are a lot of us out there who want to protect others from this treatment..

[Julz]

I just read every post. Your first post made me think "shaken baby syndrome". However, if it was clear the next day, it sounds like high blood pressure due to extreme stress. I am sure you are relieved that your baby is safe. I am also sure that a part of you is hurting from losing your BF. Time will heal and time will tell you what you need to hear. If your Yorkie is cowering against walls and scared to death only when he is around, then there really isn't much of an option there. You can't get rid of her and see if it works out with him. Please update on her behaviour and let us know if she gets the bloodshot eyes again. How long were you with him?

[LuvMyYorkies]

If I were you, I would find a new b/f. Dogs are very sensitive to human behavior, and Kissie probably knows this guy is a CAD. Yorkies are very loving little furbabies, and if she is terrified in his presence, I would be very worried. Anyone who is abusive to these little furbabies will probably be abusive to you sooner or later.

[jenstals]

Mona,

Let us know you are ok!

Jen

[ilovelouie]

Waiting to hear from you mona. Hope all is well!