Tink is really sick again.

[Tink's Mom]

Called Barb this afternoon and Tink did not have a good day. She spent the whole night last night and again this morning "looking" for me. She wouldn't eat today and doesn't want to be held. She's back to laying in the corner, sucking on her frog.

I think we got her too confused taking her to the hospital and then bringing her here to the rehab center. Barb isn't sure, but I think we shouldn't drag her out again. As much as I loved seeing her, it seems to me that it is stressing her too much. I can call her on my cell and talk to her. That worked when she was first in the hospital. I don't want her to get all confused and upset!

What does everyone think?

[Ozzie'sperson]

Awwww ... hi Susie! How are you? I was just asking about you.

Sorry to hear that her lovely little blackness had a bad day.

I agree with you. When ozzie was in the hospital, I stayed away because I figured the excitement of seeing me -- and then the devastation of me leaving -- would have been too stressful.

[cdawnfine]

Oh, its sweet, sad, makes you want to laugh and cry at the same time. It's hard to always do the right thing, you know your Tink, and you have to ask yourself what is best for her recovery, eventhough you seeing her helps with yours. Maybe the people keeping her right now could video her for you. It is not the same as holding her but it will bring a smile to your face

[bettyeanne]

That's encouraging news. Poor little Tink ... I know she can't understand. Sounds like she is improving but I can only imagine how difficult this is for you. I am still praying for you both.

[omega]

That's a tough one, Susie. It would probably be harder on you than on Tink to not visit for a while. If Tink is suffering cause of it, then you know what is best for her. On the up side, she obviously remembers and still loves her mommy!!!!

I hope PT goes better tomorrow. From what I have heard - it isn't always forward progress. There are ups and downs along the way.

Hang in there, my friend.

Hugs..

[yorkiesmiles]

Wow, how hard Susie. How long do you think you will be separated? Is it harder to see you somewhere that isn't home or is it harder for her not to have contact with you? I'm sad that you had such a good visit and then it was so hard on her after she left

Praying for you both to rehab quickly

[SophieRose]

I think we got her too confused taking her to the hospital and then bringing her here to the rehab center. Barb isn't sure, but I think we shouldn't drag her out again. As much as I loved seeing her, it seems to me that it is stressing her too much. I can call her on my cell and talk to her. That worked when she was first in the hospital. I don't want her to get all confused and upset!

As difficult as it may seem, Susie, it does sounds like she becomes confused and stressed. Perhaps you can space out your physical visits although this could be part of her recovery. Up day/down day. Obviously, she is responding to you, and gives the both of you comfort.

I do know that when I was separated from Sophie, she would be physically ill. Yorkies and stress go "hand and hand".

You will find the answer and know what is best for the both of you. Do hope you are feeling stronger and each day bring improvement in your healing.

Warmly, Deborah and Uncle Charlie

[I Miss Shelby]

I noticed that all the candels have gone out for Tink. I started a new Tink page so let's keep them lit until she comes home.
Group *Tink* Candles - Light A Candle

[Zanders' mom]

I was thinking... when Tink came to your home she spent time with you, she slept on you, she went back to Barbs, she continued to improve, she was OK. However, since she was taken to the hospital & rehab. she senses/knows Mom needs her, so her behavior maybe that she is frustrated because she can't be there for mom, to help her recover.
Along with the rest of YTERS I have you in prayer sweet lady, Tink as well. Hang in there. (((Hugs))) Annie, Zander & Jazzie

[Tink's Mom]

Originally Posted by I Miss Shelby

I noticed that all the candels have gone out for Tink. I started a new Tink page so let's keep them lit until she comes home.
Group *Tink* Candles - Light A Candle

Thank you for starting a new page for her. I really appreciate everyone's thoughtfullness and caring of us here on YT.

[Tink's Mom]

Originally Posted by Zanders' mom

I was thinking... when Tink came to your home she spent time with you, she slept on you, she went back to Barbs, she continued to improve, she was OK. However, since she was taken to the hospital & rehab. she senses/knows Mom needs her, so her behavior maybe that she is frustrated because she can't be there for mom, to help her recover.
Along with the rest of YTERS I have you in prayer sweet lady, Tink as well. Hang in there. (((Hugs))) Annie, Zander & Jazzie

You could be right about that. She didn't seem the same at all when she came to visit at hospital or the rehab center.

I've decided to not have her visit while I'm at rehab. When I go home, we'll work something out then. I talked with Barb today and she agrees that's the thing to do. She'll keep a close watch on her this week and next and if she thinks Tink needs to see Mama, thrn we'll bring her in.

Thank you everyone for your support.

[Morkie4]

I am sure your heart says to "see" Tink again as it is great therapy for YOU but as you said, it may just be too upsetting for Tink to see you and then not see you for a while! I am sure she does not understand but as Teri said, SHE KNOWS AND LOVES HER MOMMY!!!!

Sending hugs to you and pats to Tink! Get well soon my friend!

[SophieRose]

Such a lovely way to send healing prayers for Susie and Tinkerbelle

[Rudys Mom]

I just now lit another candle for dear, sweet Tink. I hope Susie, that you both have a full recovery real soon and that you & Tink are back home in no time. both of you.

[mayers]

Susie and Tink,
I just saw this posting today and unfortunately spent a good deal of time at work reading the posts (not what I get paid for). I couldn't tear myself away, I didn't want to miss any of your posts. I have always been a firm believer of not going to the back of the book to see how things turn out. I love both of your strength and love. The separation must be so difficult. All I can offer is this: Both of my dauchsunds blew out their backs, Bratwurst at a fairly early age, he was only two. I had to bring him to NC State for emergency back surgery. Afterward the doctor told me he would probably never use his back legs again. This tore my heart out remembering is cocky little jaunt as we went on walks, but I would deal. One and a half years later after much water and sling therapy he was back up and walking (not running) about and he had an even cuter wobbly jaunt. My female was 7 when her back went out. Same story but her recovery was quicker with my experience.

Another, more inspiring story was from a co-worker who told me this when I cried to her about what had happened to my young boy. She had a female doxie of about 8 that suffered a traumatic back injury which totally paralyzed her. Abby could lift her head and eat, the rest of the digestive system just happened and Patricia was constantly cleaning her, but could not have her put her down. Day in and day out she fed her, cleaned her, tried to get her to walk. For three years this continued until it was an excepted custom of life. Abby was a blob in a small dog bed. One day Patricia noticed Abby's tail move, amazed she did pain tests on all of her feet with no reaction. The next morning Patricia went in to clean and feed Abby and she had her front legs straight out in front of her in a sitting position. Long story short three days later Abby was walking into the kitchen to get her own breakfast. This is a true story and at a ripe old age of 15, Abby still gets her own breakfast. Her bowels and pee continued to be a problem but a small one considering. If it hadn't been for Patricia and Abby's story I would have lacked all hope for Bratwurst ever walking normally again. I have a picture of Abby over my desk with 'my hero' under it, even though Brat has been dead over a year. I hope this gives you a little inspiration, it did me.

As far as the rehab center . . . dogs have incredibly sensitive senses. First Tink knows she doesn't feel good, she senses that you (her life) does not feel good. When you couple that with strange smells (unhealthy smells) unhappy, unhealthy people. Even though her cognition is compromised she still senses all of this. Its going to put her in a funk and at this point she really can't process all of the smells and feelings that are going through her scarred brain. Best to keep her in comfortable, familiar surroundings. Best for you to get home, back with your fluff muffin and cuddle. Love is what you both need to heal. Sorry for the long post.

Melissa and Rambeau (I lit a shiny stick for Tinky and Susie hope they like it)