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05-14-2007, 06:41 PM | #1 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | This situation is out of hand Something strange happened today. My bf and I went to his apt to pick something up(he lives with his older sis). While we were in his room we heard a noise in his kitchen but disreqarded it thinking it was from another apt, you can hear noises clearly. When he went to the kitchen to get something he saw his sister's ex boyfriend trying to hide. His sister and her ex no longer live together but they have a daughter together. However she was in her room with the doors closed and she didn't know he was in the apt. He had gotten in somehow, we think that he made a copy of her key. When my bf saw him he told him not to say anything but my bf was like ok because he thought that they were playing around with each other and he didn't know what was going on. He used to come to the house all the time so it was no big deal. However when his sis went to the bathroom, which is on the other side of the apt. my bf told her her ex was in the house. She was shocked, but she pretended she didn't know. Me and my bf had to leave so we told her to come with us so we all left together and he stayed in the house. Later she told my bf that her ex had hit her yesterday and she was crying. She also has bruises on her body. She did't call the cops because he was in jail before and for their daughter didn't want him to go again. She is scared for her life and doesn't know how he keeps entering the apt. We told her to tell the cops and I called my brother, which is a cop and he told me she has to tell them and file a domestic incident report. Yesterday he entered the apt while she was sleeping and that is when he hit her. I don't even feel safe there. I had to leave.
__________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3 Last edited by mizzwanned; 05-14-2007 at 06:43 PM. |
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05-14-2007, 06:48 PM | #2 |
Peeka Boo I See You! Donating Member | OMG she needs to report him NOW!!!!!! he could really hurt her or worse it is sick that he comes into her apartment she needs to protect herself and her child by getting a protection order against him! I am so sorry you have to witness this. Please help her by telling her that her child is also in Danger what if he decides to kidnapp her in the middle of the night? Get those locks changed ASAP!!!!!!!! I don't want to scare you but i really want someone to help her
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05-14-2007, 06:52 PM | #3 |
I Love My Lil' Punkin's Donating Member | Good Lord - this seems like a very BAD situation...and it is only going to get worse unless someone seriously files a complaint on this guy. If I were you guys - I would NOT be staying in that apt. NONE of you. If he is coming in-in the middle of the night while she is sleeping...well, that is just CREEPY. It's bad enough that he got in and hit her - what if next time it's WORSE? She has every reason to be afraid, and especially if they have a child - I would keep that kid as far away from that guy as possible! What was he in jail for? Seriously, someone needs to call the cops and file a complaint and get him AWAY from her and the child. Get a restraining order against him. If he gets angry enough, he could snap and next time it may be WORSE than just a "hit". IMO, this is no situation to fool around with and it SHOULDN'T be taken lightly. I tell you, these days...I don't put ANYTHING past ANYONE.
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05-14-2007, 07:02 PM | #4 | |
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05-14-2007, 07:08 PM | #5 | |
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__________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3 | |
05-14-2007, 07:13 PM | #6 | |
Peeka Boo I See You! Donating Member | Quote:
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05-14-2007, 07:18 PM | #7 |
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| Someone needs to step in IMMEDIATELY!! This IS stalking and it WILL get worse...he needs to be charged no matter what...he needs MAJOR help...I hope this can get done soon..for her and her daughters sake.. Dawn |
05-14-2007, 07:23 PM | #8 |
My hairy-legged girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: lompoc, ca.
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| She needs to take charge of her and her daughters life, and don't let a child make decisions that can only be made by an adult. I hope you can talk some sense into her before it's too late. |
05-14-2007, 07:34 PM | #9 | |
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I am so scared for them too. I just keep wondering what would he have done if me and my bf didn't go there and see him. Out of all days we went today for some reason and we haven't been there in over a week. I also had a friend in an abusive relationship. They are hard to get out of Thank goodness my bf is not controlling like that. Right now she is in his family's house and I guess talking to them about what happened.
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05-14-2007, 07:38 PM | #10 | |
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I agree...he needs serious help!
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05-14-2007, 08:33 PM | #11 |
Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX
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| You and your boyfriend need to report it if you saw the bruises and this freak in her house. Your brother being a cop should be obligated to report it also since you told him. (I only say this from being married to a cop and it's my understanding that he would be obligated to report a crime if he knew about it). Could be wrong.....
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05-14-2007, 08:36 PM | #12 | |
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05-15-2007, 03:13 AM | #13 |
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| She needs to report it. Whatever the process is for a restarining order--she needs to find out and get one. She needs to get a court appointed person to do the off-site daughter exchange when he has visitation so she doesn't have to be involved. Change those locks, and add a couple deadbolts. She needs to NOT communicate with him AT ALL. Cut off all contact. A restraining order would cover her at work as well so if he coming round there or calling--he needs to be reported. Everyone at her work need to be aware and also cut him off. There is NO middle ground or compromise with a person like her ex------none. She needs you all to stand up for her now and step in-----she will not be able to do this alone as he knows just what buttons to push (he installed them) to get her to crack. Please help her--her life really does depend on it. Everyone thinks it can't happen to them---every woman six feet under at the hands of an abuser thought so too. |
05-15-2007, 08:06 AM | #14 |
Jojo's & Junior's too! Donating YT Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Watsonville, CA
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| I hope everything turns out well.
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05-15-2007, 09:38 AM | #15 |
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| I have never understood why people just sit back and let stuff like this continue to happen. She needs to report him, and change her locks and whatever else is needed to keep herself and her daughter safe. This is probably why it's not a good idea to date criminals. I feel sorry for her daughter If not for herself she needs to do something to protect her daughter from this weirdo. Quite frankly if I had someone who hit me, I would report his ass and move within 2 minutes of it happening. I hope her daughter doesn't grow up traumatized.
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