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12-30-2006, 10:08 PM | #1 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Space City
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| My aunt tried to comitt suicide I posted this thread at 4womantalk.com but wanted to share it with the Yters too, I'm just very, very sad. My mom called me a few minutes ago to tell me that my favorite aunt, one of my moms 4 sisters, tried to kill herself this morning. She has been very depressed since she had her hysterectomy. She always wanted to have babies, but unfortunately she couldn't, she tried 15 years and she wasn't able, she tried everything, and nothing worked, my sister offer to carry her baby as well as one of cousins, but nothing happened. Last night this woman comes to my aunt's house and tells her that she is the mistress of my aunts husband (my uncle) and that they been having a realtionship for a few years now and that she was just there to show her that she can have babies, not like her that she is infertile, so she showed her the baby that she just had with the SOB of my aunt's husband. That crushed my aunt.It shattered her in pieces. After that my aunt went crazy, she argued with her husband and nobody knows exactly what happened but he left, so this morning she called my sister to tell her that she was very depressed and that she didn't want to live anymore. As soon as she hung up with my sister, my sister called my auncle( my mom's brother) who lives in he same street as my aunt and my sister told my auncle to go see auntie V 'cause she didn't sound very well, once he got there she had cut her wrists and had taken a whole bunch of pills. They rushed her ti the hospital and she is ok right now, but she's been sleeping all day. Don't know exactly what they did to her but she is ok. All this is happening in Mexico, I'm here, I wish I could do somtehing but my husband says that there is nothing I can do right now. Mom says that aunti V needs to see a therapist, my Mom has a masters in phsicology, but she says that auntie V needs a phsyciatrist(sorry for the mispellings). I love my aunt so much like I say she is my favorite aunt, she is only 9 years aolder than me, so we pretty much grew up together until she got married of course. I'm going to be very honest, my mom told me not to wish these kind of things and not to hold grudges against anybody, but I wish that something bad happens to that mistress for all the pain that she has brought to our family with her actions. She knew what she was doing and that is why she did it. We are a very cloe family and this hurts a lot to all of us. I'm sorry for the long thread I just wanted to tell this to someone because it hurts a lot.
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12-30-2006, 10:13 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Bay Area, California
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| I am so sorry that your family is going through this right now. The best thing for your aunt is that she has a very loving family! My uncle went through something years ago that was very similar except that he didn't end up surviving. Big hugs. I'm sure you'll be able to visit your aunt soon!
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12-30-2006, 10:15 PM | #3 |
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| Oh my dear....I'm in tears for your pain and worry for your aunt. I'm sending prayers to God for your family. For strength, for healing, for love. My daughter tried suicide a year ago. She found help from a caring Psych. She is well now. Only focus your energy on your aunt, for healing and love. Do not spend your energy on the evil ones in this. They will have to answer for the pain that they caused. Hopefully your auntie will get the help that she needs to deal with this awful time. PM me if you need to chat about it. Hugs to you and your family
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12-30-2006, 10:21 PM | #4 |
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| Sending prayers your Aunts way....What a terrible situation to be going through......That "Mistress" is just a Nasty nasty person...how truly evil to throw all that up in her face like that. And for her husband what a coward to keep another relationship secret like that for who knows how long. I hope that your Aunt can come out of this an even stronger person than before.
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12-30-2006, 10:37 PM | #5 | |
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I am so very sorry for your Aunt. It is so sad. I am glad they was able to save her and that she will be able to get the help she needs. As for the mistress, let it go, cause it will just cause you more pain thinking about it. Just focus your thoughts and prayers for your Aunt now. I will be keeping her and you and your family in my prayers. Your Aunt needs a lot of help in dealing with all this. I have never been able to understand these life situations, it is such a shame that they happen. Life passes us by so quickly that one should really stop and think and look for the happiness that God wants each of us to have. It sure isn't in the world or of the world but through one's appreciation of the gifts he bestows to us and marriage is one of those. I truely pray your Aunt will get through all this and my deepest regrets for her that she had to go through such happenings. Through everyones prayers, God will help your Aunt to deal with all this and through his will she'll be okay. Sending big (((((((to youVeguroev))))))) from myself and Jack. PM me is you ever need someone to chat, I am always here for you. Patti | |
12-30-2006, 10:38 PM | #6 |
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| I almost did not read your thread, as I just went through this not too long ago... Your Aunt does need you... and your focus really does need to be on her, not the events leading up to her actions, or even her actions... just her recovery. Its very hard to face your family and friends after such an act... after the fact you realize that no matter what lead you to do it, it was a selfish thing to do... to potently leave all of your loved ones behind to deal with your sudden death without any answers or closure. The guilt is haunting... A loving family will be her best medicine... and a good Psychiatrist! Mine did wonders! He also referred me to a great therapist! lol I needed that too... Just be there when she's ready... I'm so sorry... its scary to almost lose someone... And having been in her shoes.. its even more scarier to realize, with a clear head, that you almost devastated everyone you really care about...
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12-30-2006, 10:48 PM | #7 |
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| prayers going out to your family and please be there for her as much as you can. She needs you all by her side to help her get better.
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12-30-2006, 11:08 PM | #8 |
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| What a sad story and to have it happen during the holidays when there should be laughter and love. Shame on her husband for having an affair and shame on the evil mistress for throwing it in your Aunt's face. I will be praying for her and for you and your family. It is so hard to see loved ones hurting so deeply. I'm so thankful that she got help before it was too late. *HUG*
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12-31-2006, 07:03 AM | #9 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Space City
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| Thank you everyone for the prayers and the kind words. I'm still in shock thinking that she could had die!, but thank god that didn't happen.Now I just have to wait for my Mom to call me to give an update on my aunt.
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12-31-2006, 07:10 AM | #10 |
Mommy's Little Boo Boo Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Virgina
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| Your family is in my thoughts and prayers, your aunt will need to be surrounded by the love of your family now. I am sorry you can't be closer
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12-31-2006, 10:11 AM | #11 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama
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| I am so very sorry for this tragedy. I will keep your entire family in my prayers. Sending hugs Thank you for sharing your sadness with your YT family. Prayers are heard and I am sure your family is getting bunches..... |
12-31-2006, 12:05 PM | #12 |
My Sun Shine's bright Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Georiga
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| I'm so sorry for you, and most of all for your anut she must have been at the end of her rope, To think of the pain she must have been in is heartbreaking. The uncle should have had enough guts to talk to her what he was feeling and listen to her because she is the one stuffering for the loss she wanted SO BAD, I think he's a dirt bag and needs to be kick to the curb. As far as the other woman she needs a good ass kicking. This is just what I think.You and your family are in my prayers.
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12-31-2006, 12:10 PM | #13 |
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| I'm so sorry that your Aunt was dealt such a horrible blow I'm glad that she did not succeed with her attempt, and that you all are there for her. She's going to need a lot of love and support in the coming months, and I'm sure that she'll get it As for that nasty little mistress, she'll get hers in the end. They always do. Big hugs to you!!!!!!!!!
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