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Old 12-18-2006, 05:59 PM   #1
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I am the single mother of a 14 year old boy. He is absolutely awesome around other people, but he treats me like yesterday's garbage. It's really starting to get to me. Not only am I dealing with him, but it brings back memories of how I treated my parents. Guess I'm getting it back "ten fold" as they always said. Just had to vent, thanks for listening.
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I'm sorry. Hope you feel better. I don't have kids yet but my mother has already cursed me. "I hope you have kids just like YOU" I'm scared
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I'm sorry.

My parents ALWAYS say to me "I hope you have a kid just like YOU!" ....I plan on adopting.
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I'm sorry.

My parents ALWAYS say to me "I hope you have a kid just like YOU!" ....I plan on adopting.
Well, that did bring a chuckle! I was an awful teenager, so I guess I deserve it, but that doesn't make it any easier to deal with today. Think I'll hit the hay and pray for a better day tomorrow!
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I am the single mother of a 14 year old boy. He is absolutely awesome around other people, but he treats me like yesterday's garbage. It's really starting to get to me. Not only am I dealing with him, but it brings back memories of how I treated my parents. Guess I'm getting it back "ten fold" as they always said. Just had to vent, thanks for listening.

Dear ChestersMom,
First of all, let loose of those unpleasant memories of you with your folks, and think of the good pleasant ones. Have you sought counceling, it is important to do that. Fourteen is a difficult age, maybe the two of you could go for counceling at different times and then together. Prayers for all to work out, they will.
Please keep us updated on how things go. Life is just too short to harbor unpleasant memories, so hopefully you will let go of your own. Is your son into activities at school? Do you join in and participate in them? Try to work on your relationship and then build on it from there. Have you sat down with him and talked seriously about this problem? It might be a good thing to do. Wishing the best for you and your son. Patti
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Way too many teens today "just don't get it". When my 3 got a bit sassy, I would remind them that they were entitled to food, shelter, clothing, an education, and moral training. EVERYTHING else was optional and was provided because we were financially able and because I wanted to.

A pinto beans, cole slaw and cornbread makes a fairly nutritionally balanced meal

The unheated bonus room above the garage with a matress on the floor fulfilled the shelter requirement

Goodwill and Salvation Army sells some mighty fine clothes

They can wait in the cold rain in winter and hot rain in summer for the BIG YELLOW BUS to take them to school

I am not obligated to provide computers, tv's, cable, telephones, cell phones, ipods, and will NEVER EVER provide booze, drugs OR condem's This little speech usually quietened them down for a while --
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Dear ChestersMom,
First of all, let loose of those unpleasant memories of you with your folks, and think of the good pleasant ones. Have you sought counceling, it is important to do that. Fourteen is a difficult age, maybe the two of you could go for counceling at different times and then together. Prayers for all to work out, they will.
Please keep us updated on how things go. Life is just too short to harbor unpleasant memories, so hopefully you will let go of your own. Is your son into activities at school? Do you join in and participate in them? Try to work on your relationship and then build on it from there. Have you sat down with him and talked seriously about this problem? It might be a good thing to do. Wishing the best for you and your son. Patti

Amen, Sister! You have a fine head on your shoulders and a spirit filled heart. Thank you!
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Just want to encourage you to hang in there. Fourteen year old boys can be awful to deal with. If you continue to love him and be consistent and fair with your discipline, one day he will thank you.
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All right girl I have to print that and save it for my kids. They are not teens as yet but I can see how good that will go over...lol. :Love it.


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Way too many teens today "just don't get it". When my 3 got a bit sassy, I would remind them that they were entitled to food, shelter, clothing, an education, and moral training. EVERYTHING else was optional and was provided because we were financially able and because I wanted to.

A pinto beans, cole slaw and cornbread makes a fairly nutritionally balanced meal

The unheated bonus room above the garage with a matress on the floor fulfilled the shelter requirement

Goodwill and Salvation Army sells some mighty fine clothes

They can wait in the cold rain in winter and hot rain in summer for the BIG YELLOW BUS to take them to school

I am not obligated to provide computers, tv's, cable, telephones, cell phones, ipods, and will NEVER EVER provide booze, drugs OR condem's This little speech usually quietened them down for a while --
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Way too many teens today "just don't get it". When my 3 got a bit sassy, I would remind them that they were entitled to food, shelter, clothing, an education, and moral training. EVERYTHING else was optional and was provided because we were financially able and because I wanted to.

A pinto beans, cole slaw and cornbread makes a fairly nutritionally balanced meal

The unheated bonus room above the garage with a matress on the floor fulfilled the shelter requirement

Goodwill and Salvation Army sells some mighty fine clothes

They can wait in the cold rain in winter and hot rain in summer for the BIG YELLOW BUS to take them to school

I am not obligated to provide computers, tv's, cable, telephones, cell phones, ipods, and will NEVER EVER provide booze, drugs OR condem's This little speech usually quietened them down for a while --

All right girl I have to print that and save it for my kids. They are not teens as yet but I can see how good that will go over...lol. :Love it.
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I am the single mother of a 14 year old boy. He is absolutely awesome around other people, but he treats me like yesterday's garbage. It's really starting to get to me. Not only am I dealing with him, but it brings back memories of how I treated my parents. Guess I'm getting it back "ten fold" as they always said. Just had to vent, thanks for listening.
I wish you luck. It's hard dealing with teens. They think they know it all and we know nothing...go figure. My friend at work is having the same problems with her 17 year old. She too is a single parent and gives him the whole world. She even still irons his clothes and he is a down right brat. I told her maybe she can try some counseling with their family priest or someone else that he respects that can be that unbiased mediator. Good luck and god bless. Amazing that once upon a time they were so cute an innocent.

Things will get better so keep your head up.
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I know what you mean...My son is 16 and I belive he hates me....It's true he yells at me and calls me crazy...I try to be a good mom....He's is learning to drive and it's pure hell...He has no repect for no one I'm ready to pull all my hair out....


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Way too many teens today "just don't get it". When my 3 got a bit sassy, I would remind them that they were entitled to food, shelter, clothing, an education, and moral training. EVERYTHING else was optional and was provided because we were financially able and because I wanted to.

A pinto beans, cole slaw and cornbread makes a fairly nutritionally balanced meal

The unheated bonus room above the garage with a matress on the floor fulfilled the shelter requirement

Goodwill and Salvation Army sells some mighty fine clothes

They can wait in the cold rain in winter and hot rain in summer for the BIG YELLOW BUS to take them to school

I am not obligated to provide computers, tv's, cable, telephones, cell phones, ipods, and will NEVER EVER provide booze, drugs OR condem's This little speech usually quietened them down for a while --
I absolutely LOVE your way of thinking. I've printed this out to be used when my 12 and 10 year old daughters get to that stage!!
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Dear ChestersMom,
First of all, let loose of those unpleasant memories of you with your folks, and think of the good pleasant ones. Have you sought counceling, it is important to do that. Fourteen is a difficult age, maybe the two of you could go for counceling at different times and then together. Prayers for all to work out, they will.
Please keep us updated on how things go. Life is just too short to harbor unpleasant memories, so hopefully you will let go of your own. Is your son into activities at school? Do you join in and participate in them? Try to work on your relationship and then build on it from there. Have you sat down with him and talked seriously about this problem? It might be a good thing to do. Wishing the best for you and your son. Patti

Patti you are so very thoughtful and kind-hearted! You give great advice as well. Sometimes (remembering my teenage years) a heart-to-heart with no accusations is the best method.
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