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Dragonfly · 09-13-2006, 07:42 PM

My husband wanted me to wash is work shorts I ask him if the pockets was empty and he said they were. BUT he left his cell phone in the pocket and it got washed and he yell at me for it

what gives now he's does not have a phone and he said that I didn't tell him to check the pockets

Now I'm upset b/c he will want a new one and I'll have to pay for it since it's my fault

sweetr72 · 09-13-2006, 07:49 PM

OMG this happened to me last year. I washed my hubbies pants and he ALWAYS checks his owns pockets, puts his socks together (you know all the stuff you wish they would do..he does!!) and I didnt think to check his pockets. I always check my own and my kids but his I just dont think to check. Anyhow...I washed his fathers watch!! His dad died when my hubby was 12 so this watch is VERY VERY special..the worst part is..I DRIED it too!!! It is totally beyond repair but he wasnt mad TG!! He still keeps it of course even though it is not funtional...I think I was more sick about it than him...tell you husband to LIGHTEN up and tell him what I did!! He's lucky its only a phone and not a heirloom!! Oh...and tell him to check his own pockets lol...

Dawn

OLIVIA_KARHIS · 09-13-2006, 07:51 PM

Hes a big boy, you should not have to tell him to check the pockets.

I told my hubby, the 1ST time I ever warsh his clothes, that if he leaves ANYTHING in his pocket and it get warshed.. its not my fault bc he is old enough to take his junk of out his pocket with out being told. If I can remeber to do it, I know he can remember to do it too.

I am sorry you are having a bad day

Dragonfly · 09-13-2006, 07:53 PM

I'm sorry to here about the watch. My hubby said he did check his pockets and he put the shorts in to be wash, that's what I don't understand why he was so mad at me.

red98vett · 09-13-2006, 07:54 PM

Hmmmmm...You asked him if he emptied his pockets and YOU got in yelled at ? Can I say this ? they are NOT children who need to be monitored - grown men should be in charge of what's in their own pockets....unless of course it's money - then hey - LEAVE it in the shorts !!!

sorry you had a hard time

I would try to explain to him that you trust his word when he said he emptied his pockets - and next time - maybe check ALL his pants just in case.

yougetthesmiles · 09-13-2006, 07:54 PM

I dont understand why men leave things in there pockets! My husband does the same thing and I guess I'm used to it! Blahhhh! So sorry this happened!

red98vett · 09-13-2006, 07:57 PM

I agree ....and I was wrong when I said they are not children - they are.

Ellen - it's only a Cell - hopefully he'll calm down & accidents happen to everyone like that. Tell him it's not the end of the world & it's not like you meant to put it thru the wash. Yelling and being mad won't change anything.

Hugs to you ...you sound like you need one

sweetr72 · 09-13-2006, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Dragonfly

I'm sorry to here about the watch. My hubby said he did check his pockets and he put the shorts in to be wash, that's what I don't understand why he was so mad at me.

Cause its easier to put the blame on someone else!!

Dragonfly · 09-13-2006, 08:06 PM

Thanks everyone, I even try to give him my cell phone but he said no. I think he's was mad @ himself and just yell at me. Hey V I did need that hug,girl I'm lossing it again oh sh**

Saleswman · 09-13-2006, 09:44 PM

He was really mad at himself.......if you bought the insurance on the phone....tell him to get another one....if not....buy one off ebay....lol

MeganS · 09-13-2006, 10:03 PM

awww I'm sorry! don't let it get to you. tell him that you trusted him when he told you there was nothing in his pockets. if he wants you to buy him a cell phone, buy him a fake one or something.

cheryl000 · 09-14-2006, 12:16 AM

He should be thanking you for doing his laundry in the first place! I would not have dealt with being yelled at over that! I think he should be more greatful. It was an accident and they happen sometimes. He should have emptied out his own pockets. I don't know how many times I've washed hubby's wallet, ear plugs, or money. I told him that he should have checked his pockets. But then again he hardly ever actually PUTS them in the hamper. I hope you get to feeling better.

ytsirk27 · 09-14-2006, 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Dragonfly

My husband wanted me to wash is work shorts I ask him if the pockets was empty and he said they were. BUT he left his cell phone in the pocket and it got washed and he yell at me for it

what gives now he's does not have a phone and he said that I didn't tell him to check the pockets

Now I'm upset b/c he will want a new one and I'll have to pay for it since it's my fault

I would tell him "too bad'. I asked if they were empty and you said yes.......I wouldnt pay for crap! I agree he outta be grateful you do his laundry!

Peters · 09-14-2006, 05:05 AM

you think he would know where his phone is! i would never washanything of his ever again maybe then he would get the point maybe you could both pay half on the phone it's not all your fault!

amyd · 09-14-2006, 05:14 AM

I know this sounds crazy, but it may dry out and still work. I know more than one person who have either washed theirs or dropped their phone in the toilet and after it dried out, it worked fine. You just never know! Either way - IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!!!

Men are just overgrown kids..........

09-13-2006, 07:42 PM	#1
Dragonfly My Sun Shine's bright Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Georiga Posts: 2,353	I'm upset...................... My husband wanted me to wash is work shorts I ask him if the pockets was empty and he said they were. BUT he left his cell phone in the pocket and it got washed and he yell at me for it what gives now he's does not have a phone and he said that I didn't tell him to check the pockets Now I'm upset b/c he will want a new one and I'll have to pay for it since it's my fault __________________ My beautiful Sunshine Me & my Gang

09-13-2006, 07:49 PM	#2
sweetr72 REECE & SOLEIL Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 6,110	OMG this happened to me last year. I washed my hubbies pants and he ALWAYS checks his owns pockets, puts his socks together (you know all the stuff you wish they would do..he does!!) and I didnt think to check his pockets. I always check my own and my kids but his I just dont think to check. Anyhow...I washed his fathers watch!! His dad died when my hubby was 12 so this watch is VERY VERY special..the worst part is..I DRIED it too!!! It is totally beyond repair but he wasnt mad TG!! He still keeps it of course even though it is not funtional...I think I was more sick about it than him...tell you husband to LIGHTEN up and tell him what I did!! He's lucky its only a phone and not a heirloom!! Oh...and tell him to check his own pockets lol... Dawn __________________ Reece ~ Soleil ~ Pixie

09-13-2006, 07:51 PM	#3
OLIVIA_KARHIS Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: GERMANY Posts: 1,542	Hes a big boy, you should not have to tell him to check the pockets. I told my hubby, the 1ST time I ever warsh his clothes, that if he leaves ANYTHING in his pocket and it get warshed.. its not my fault bc he is old enough to take his junk of out his pocket with out being told. If I can remeber to do it, I know he can remember to do it too. I am sorry you are having a bad day __________________ Bunny &Bella Supporting The Troops

09-13-2006, 07:53 PM	#4
Dragonfly My Sun Shine's bright Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Georiga Posts: 2,353	I'm sorry to here about the watch. My hubby said he did check his pockets and he put the shorts in to be wash, that's what I don't understand why he was so mad at me. __________________ My beautiful Sunshine Me & my Gang

09-13-2006, 07:54 PM	#5
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 29,950	Hmmmmm...You asked him if he emptied his pockets and YOU got in yelled at ? Can I say this ? they are NOT children who need to be monitored - grown men should be in charge of what's in their own pockets....unless of course it's money - then hey - LEAVE it in the shorts !!! sorry you had a hard time I would try to explain to him that you trust his word when he said he emptied his pockets - and next time - maybe check ALL his pants just in case. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri.. AKA Spy-Girls (photos here) Click for LABELS Click for CARDS * SAY NO to PET STORES ! www.designsbyvillette.com USING YOUR PHOTOS !

09-13-2006, 07:54 PM	#6
yougetthesmiles The Brat Pack Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 9,287 Blog Entries: 3	I dont understand why men leave things in there pockets! My husband does the same thing and I guess I'm used to it! Blahhhh! So sorry this happened! __________________ Is your being a Pee Pee Brat? Think of me and get a Wee Wee Wrap! Specializing in custom made Harness Vest, Dresses, WeeWee Wraps & Poochie Pants! TAIL WAGGERS

09-13-2006, 07:57 PM	#7
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 29,950	I agree ....and I was wrong when I said they are not children - they are. Ellen - it's only a Cell - hopefully he'll calm down & accidents happen to everyone like that. Tell him it's not the end of the world & it's not like you meant to put it thru the wash. Yelling and being mad won't change anything. Hugs to you ...you sound like you need one __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri.. AKA Spy-Girls (photos here) Click for LABELS Click for CARDS * SAY NO to PET STORES ! www.designsbyvillette.com USING YOUR PHOTOS !

09-13-2006, 08:06 PM	#9
Dragonfly My Sun Shine's bright Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Georiga Posts: 2,353	Thanks everyone, I even try to give him my cell phone but he said no. I think he's was mad @ himself and just yell at me. Hey V I did need that hug,girl I'm lossing it again oh sh** __________________ My beautiful Sunshine Me & my Gang

09-13-2006, 09:44 PM	#10
Saleswman Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 1,544	That is what I thought.... He was really mad at himself.......if you bought the insurance on the phone....tell him to get another one....if not....buy one off ebay....lol

09-13-2006, 10:03 PM	#11
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 10,030 Blog Entries: 1	awww I'm sorry! don't let it get to you. tell him that you trusted him when he told you there was nothing in his pockets. if he wants you to buy him a cell phone, buy him a fake one or something. __________________ Megan Positive posting makes every day brighter! "I stand for the power to change." - I Stand by Idina Menzel "I have my dreams. I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen musical

09-14-2006, 12:16 AM	#12
cheryl000 YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: none Posts: 1,495	He should be thanking you for doing his laundry in the first place! I would not have dealt with being yelled at over that! I think he should be more greatful. It was an accident and they happen sometimes. He should have emptied out his own pockets. I don't know how many times I've washed hubby's wallet, ear plugs, or money. I told him that he should have checked his pockets. But then again he hardly ever actually PUTS them in the hamper. I hope you get to feeling better.

09-14-2006, 05:05 AM	#14
Peters YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 1,997	you think he would know where his phone is! i would never washanything of his ever again maybe then he would get the point maybe you could both pay half on the phone it's not all your fault!

09-14-2006, 05:14 AM	#15
amyd YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Knoxville, TN Posts: 299	I know this sounds crazy, but it may dry out and still work. I know more than one person who have either washed theirs or dropped their phone in the toilet and after it dried out, it worked fine. You just never know! Either way - IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!!! Men are just overgrown kids.......... __________________ Amy Lou - Lily & Elvis too Lily's page: http://www.dogster.com/?411879 Elvis' page: http://www.dogster.com/?411982