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04-07-2006, 09:00 AM | #1 |
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| I am soooo MAD at my sister! As some of you might know I am about 6 weeks pregnant. My husband and I agreed that we are not going to tell anyone in our family until after the first trimester passes because if something were to happen to the baby, we don't want everyone to get upset. We also would like to be spared from the heartbreak from being approached by people later on asking about it if something were to happen. We figured it was the smart thing to do. Yesterday I told my sister about one of the threads on yorkietalk asking her what she would do. I did not give her the link, I just copy and pasted what was said because she is a nurse. Then this morning she calls me at 7am waking me up telling me that I have news to tell her. I am 100% sure that she came on here and looked up my messages here on yorkietalk to find out that I am pregnant. NO ONE else knows but yorkietalk. But I use the same screenname as my email. I think it's okay for other members to look at each other's messages. I know that the internet posts things for everyone to see. But for her to deliberately come here and investigate me is wrong. That was her only purpose in coming to the site. How would you guys feel if a family member came here and looked up all the things you had posted to investigate you? I feel really violated and if I wanted to tell her I would have told her. She should have at least allowed me to have that moment to give her the news or at least pretend she didn't read it. Now she is even lying saying that she had a dream that something is up. She is such a bad liar. I am so mad at her I don't know what to say or how to handle it. She is supposed to be an adult and I have never done anything like this to her. Last edited by cheryl000; 04-07-2006 at 09:04 AM. |
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04-07-2006, 09:12 AM | #2 |
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| She probably just sensed that something was up and she knew you spilled the beans on here. Try not to be too upset with her, I'm sure she's just excited about it all and wanted to know (human curiousity). It sucks that she took the news telling away from you and hopefully she won't tell anyone else. She shouldn't haev violated you, but she's probably just excited. Don't get too upset during a time when you're supposed to be happy
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04-07-2006, 09:23 AM | #3 | |
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04-07-2006, 09:26 AM | #4 |
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| I agree it's definetely a violation. She shouldn't have done that it was wrong. I would probably be mad too, but in a way, this will teach you to limit what you say to some people. But she is your sister and she does care about you and probably just made a mistake. Don't let her get in the way of your wonderful news and wonderful new adventure coming up CONGRATULATIONS! Maybe you can talk to her and ask her why she did it and tell her the truth, that you don't appreciate it and it's a violation of your privacy. Ask her how she would feel if you went through all of her emails.
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04-07-2006, 09:32 AM | #5 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Orlando, Fl.
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| UGH that is horrible! I'd be just as upset as you are. I couldn't imagine anyone doing that..especially a family member! Does she know that you think she's lying etc.? Hmm...I'd be mad at her too. But she is your sister...you must forgive her!
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04-07-2006, 09:39 AM | #6 |
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| My sister has proved before that she can't respect my privacy or my wishes. The first time I was pregnant I asked her not to tell my parents and sure enough, the next day my mom called me telling me to tell her the news. So I guess I have to tell my parents now because I'm sure she will. |
04-07-2006, 09:47 AM | #7 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Indiana
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| I know how you feel..that is the ONE thing i absolutely can't stand about my family is nothing is a dang secret. I know better than to tell any of them my business cause sure enough if i do it's the whole damn familys business. So i don't tell any of them anything i don't want out..and i like you would be upset if someone invaded my privacy like that. but rest assured i'm sure she probably will read this too. Maybe it will make her realize she needs to stop meddling in your business..
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04-07-2006, 09:51 AM | #8 | |
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Yep, sisters are the best!!~!! NOT!!! I'd fill your parents in now, If she called last time, She's going to call again, Hang in there!
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04-07-2006, 09:57 AM | #9 | |
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04-07-2006, 10:13 AM | #10 |
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| What a bummer! I know I say things on here and I forget that anyone can read it. (Especially Megan, my daughter). Sometimes I say something and when she reads it I am always surprised! Your sister sounds like she just likes to be the first one who knows something! Don't let her bum you out, just concentrate on your happy news! Take Care.
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