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AmyZinNC · 03-26-2006, 07:46 AM

Ok I am having a hard time with these concert tickets I won!
when i originally won them, I had said I was taking a good friend of mine...when I picked my son up from school friday, she was there, and i was telling her how I won, how I would love to take her, blah blah blah.

We went in August and saw them in concert with 2 other people as well.

Well over the weekend the more I think about it, the right thing to do is take my sister. She isn't a HUGE country fan...but she couldnt afford to go with us over the summer, and so i think this is the right thing to do. do you agree?

I just sent an email to my friend about something else, but in it I mentioned that in my heart, this was the right thing to do, and that I hoped she wasn't too upset with me...etc.

Well not 5 minutes later she just left a message here (i was outside) that her daughter wanted to talk to my son (there in the same class) and to call her when we got in.

Now Im thinking, she got the email, and she's mad at me.
But my mom says, they're adults, they sould understand (and she's much older then me as well!)

what do you guys think? Am i wrong? I feel awful now

StewiesMom · 03-26-2006, 07:48 AM

While I understand why you did what you did, I think that she has a right to be upset if you uninvited her.

AmyZinNC · 03-26-2006, 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by StewiesMom

While I understand why you did what you did, I think that she has a right to be upset if you uninvited her.

well i mean..we didn't actually make plans and say "ok, we'll go and have these seats, I'll drive..make plans for hubby to watch your daughter"

it was more caught up in the excitement...wouldn't this be great if we went...etc..

I dont know..maybe you're right...i just feel awful now

StewiesMom · 03-26-2006, 07:53 AM

Don't feel badly. It will blow over. It's not like you won a trip to Hawaii and then changed your mind.

AmyZinNC · 03-26-2006, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by StewiesMom

Don't feel badly. It will blow over. It's not like you won a trip to Hawaii and then changed your mind.

I guess..its just..Im not a confrontational person...which is why I did the email to begin with (mistake #1 im sure) and Im sure thats why she called..to much of a conincidence 5 minutes later when we don't talk on the phone much. And she IS a confrontational person...so Im sure I'll hear it!

im so tempted to sell these darn things now..lol!

yorkieangel · 03-26-2006, 11:05 AM

WEll you might not have made definate exact plans but fron what you said it seems you IMPLIED to her she was invited. i understand you changed your mind but it seems you are making up excuses to make yourself feel better by saying no babysitting plans and such were made. i also have to say that if you really feel you did not invite her then I think you wouldn't be stressing. Plus if you wanted to uninvite her an email was really cold

Hope this doesn't sound rude but you asked what we thought and I am only saying what I think... doesn't mean I am right but just what I am thinking

DaisyMaesMom · 03-26-2006, 11:08 AM

It's awesome to want to take your sister, but if she isn't a country fan then why take her? My sister isn't a country fan either and would think I was nuts if I wanted to take her... LOL

03-26-2006, 07:48 AM	#2
StewiesMom Stewie Rox the Sox Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Chicago (Bridgeport) Posts: 6,290	While I understand why you did what you did, I think that she has a right to be upset if you uninvited her. __________________ Kristy & Stewie

03-26-2006, 07:53 AM	#4
StewiesMom Stewie Rox the Sox Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Chicago (Bridgeport) Posts: 6,290	Don't feel badly. It will blow over. It's not like you won a trip to Hawaii and then changed your mind. __________________ Kristy & Stewie

03-26-2006, 11:05 AM	#6
yorkieangel Rescue Angel Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: md Posts: 1,530	WEll you might not have made definate exact plans but fron what you said it seems you IMPLIED to her she was invited. i understand you changed your mind but it seems you are making up excuses to make yourself feel better by saying no babysitting plans and such were made. i also have to say that if you really feel you did not invite her then I think you wouldn't be stressing. Plus if you wanted to uninvite her an email was really cold Hope this doesn't sound rude but you asked what we thought and I am only saying what I think... doesn't mean I am right but just what I am thinking __________________ Yorkieangel

03-26-2006, 07:46 AM	#1
AmyZinNC Lazy Daisy's Mama Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: North of Raleigh, NC Posts: 801	who knew winning these tickets would be so stressful! Ok I am having a hard time with these concert tickets I won! when i originally won them, I had said I was taking a good friend of mine...when I picked my son up from school friday, she was there, and i was telling her how I won, how I would love to take her, blah blah blah. We went in August and saw them in concert with 2 other people as well. Well over the weekend the more I think about it, the right thing to do is take my sister. She isn't a HUGE country fan...but she couldnt afford to go with us over the summer, and so i think this is the right thing to do. do you agree? I just sent an email to my friend about something else, but in it I mentioned that in my heart, this was the right thing to do, and that I hoped she wasn't too upset with me...etc. Well not 5 minutes later she just left a message here (i was outside) that her daughter wanted to talk to my son (there in the same class) and to call her when we got in. Now Im thinking, she got the email, and she's mad at me. But my mom says, they're adults, they sould understand (and she's much older then me as well!) what do you guys think? Am i wrong? I feel awful now __________________ Kisses from Lazy Daisy & Amy

03-26-2006, 11:08 AM	#7
DaisyMaesMom and Ty too! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Denver, Nope, not Colorado Posts: 1,231	It's awesome to want to take your sister, but if she isn't a country fan then why take her? My sister isn't a country fan either and would think I was nuts if I wanted to take her... LOL