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11-25-2017, 03:21 PM | #1 |
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| Yucky situation Hi all Been along time. A situation came up in work last week. My boss (and I use the term loosely )..took advantage of an opportunity to rudely stare at my boobs..directly, head on , when I had to come into his office to discuss some work. Of course I am extremely repulsed by this cheap, low classed , abusive action. I had been planing on leaving the job and of course will still be leaving in a couple of weeks. But I would like to give this creep the business or a piece of my.mind before I go. He is about 20 to 25 yrs younger than me and a fat slob... Any ideas....how should this be handled ( as it is I will be wearing.my coat anytime I go into his office). Thanks Tina
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11-25-2017, 03:48 PM | #2 |
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| Welcome back Tina, sorry it's under these circumstances. I understand where you're coming from, it is disgusting and degrading to a woman, been there myself it was by a man much younger then myself and not anyone's boss, a nice looking young man and still not flattering to me. I however did not give him a piece of my mind nor did I quit my high paying job. I am very fast with my mouth but chose not to embarrass the young fool. In your shoes I would wear a sweater, jacket or my coat if I had to go in his office again. As for giving him a piece of your mind!!!!! I know you would feel better to do so, I myself choose to ignore pigs, don't wanna give them the satisfaction of letting them know they made me very uncomfortable (reverse phycology is my motto). Hope the other gals can be more helpful to you.
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11-26-2017, 06:49 AM | #3 |
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| Matese..... Good to hear from you...I can always trust the opinions of our group. Thanks for your opinion.I will hold off on spitting in his face but I do have a couple of good things to do before leaving.....like when he has a deadline on some work I won't come in for a day or two....hahaha to him....a little stress will do a lot for him. I am also on to see if I can find a warm snow suit for my rescue Gwent. GiGi my Yorkie who will be 16 in January is doing good (with the usual aging ailments) she has all her warm weather clothes. Also wondering if Chatties mom is still making silk harnesses....if you or anyone knows, I am interested in buying. Still taking suggestions on my yucky situation.... Hugs, Tina
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11-26-2017, 06:54 AM | #4 |
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| Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving...... gobble gobble gobble Tina
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11-26-2017, 08:20 AM | #5 | |
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11-26-2017, 03:48 PM | #6 |
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| You are so lucky to have had her for 17yrs.....but all the same it goes to fast and never long enough. She is with my Pucci guy at the bridge playing till we get there. He was 45 short of 16....not enough time at all. Well at least we will get a good laugh out of this....I may just post on the days I don't go in, lol! Have a great week, Tina
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12-01-2017, 09:31 AM | #7 |
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| Sorry to hear about the harassment issue at work! But congrats on leaving soon, hopefully to a better workplace. Like Matese (she always gives the best advice, doesn't she? ), I'd probably skip the 'getting back at him'. It's always best to leave a workplace on a good note. The subtle way of getting him stressed with deadlines is funny though. Hehe...
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12-03-2017, 02:55 PM | #8 |
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| Hi Canana.. Yes Mates had some good suggestions. ...I took off Wednesday cause there was some work to get done so.just in case he was hoping or expecting to have it finished last week , I decided to take off...lol.... Round one, lol....I will.probably resign end of month....my busy season starts in February, so I will not be there to.help.him, he will have to look for someone else....lol... Tina
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12-03-2017, 03:29 PM | #9 |
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| I love it and your plan lol. When I was planning to retire I told no one, I headed up my own credit and collection dept. the office female manager / payroll bkpr. had nothing to with me or my dept. she was supposed to know every dept. but didn't want the extra work, she was a horrible mean B$#%H. At year end she had to do the fiscal closing. I stayed for the Christmas party to get my nice juicy bonus Dec. 17th and never went back lol, I wouldn't take her calls so she was faxing me all day lol. I was close friends with the company dispatcher and took only his calls, he said the b%$#H was going to have a nervous break down, no money was being collected and her fiscal closing was way behind. Karma a wonderful thing lol
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12-03-2017, 07:04 PM | #10 |
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| I was close friends with the company dispatcher and took only his calls, he said the b%$#H was going to have a nervous break down, no money was being collected and her fiscal closing was way behind. Karma a wonderful thing lol[/QUOTE] You can say that again. ...that was a great move..she.sounds like a real witch. ..she sure got what she deserved. If I have the nerve I will stay with this place into January. ..the closer it is to February the more of a pain in the butt for them, lol. Hugs Tina
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12-04-2017, 01:09 PM | #11 |
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| Go for it, the closer to the busy season the better, causes much stress lol.
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12-04-2017, 06:19 PM | #12 | |
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But realistically speaking money is necessary so the longer I can hang in there the better. But we got a good thing going and he /they will get theirs soon, lol! I will keep you updated.... Hugs Tina
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12-05-2017, 05:03 AM | #13 |
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| Hang in there I wanted to retire in Oct. but thought why should I loose out on my nice juicy Christmas bonus, it KILLED me to stay with this witch always trying to trip me and my staff up, it was verbal fighting everyday, all day. But I knew if I left just before the end of the year she would go ballistic because she would have to cover my position which she choose not to get involved with, and she had her fiscal closing. It worked out perfect for me lol. When I didn't show up for work that Monday and didn't take any calls, she had the state police come to my house to see if I was ok, I had never missed a day of work in 10 years ROFL. Stay as long as you possibly can, but leave when the work is at the heaviest. Give no notice if possible or short notice if you have to.
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12-05-2017, 08:31 AM | #14 | |
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Lol.....to bad for them....all 4....heehee. ...while I only work for 2 bosses...I am sure all 4 were planning on getting some of their work done...some sneaky way. Heehee Hugs Tina
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12-05-2017, 05:32 PM | #15 |
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| Matese... That witch must have really been in shock when you did show up....LOL. Good for you....after 10 yrs you deserved to sit back and laugh. Well if she wasn't such a witch things would have been different, so maybe she learned a lesson.....you probably did her some good in the long run, lol. I at this place a short time...since September. ....it was sorta a summer job for me but if things were different it would be harder for me to leave but given the situation I am.history and so are they. Hugs, Tina
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